One of my friends asked me if writing my book, like if the responses I had gotten made me think that everyone was bisexual,

but it actually made me think the opposite. It's made me think it's a very unique experience to be bisexual.

And if you think you're bisexual, you probably are. Like you might not be, but that's what I usually tell people.

Like if you're like, am I by, am I not by? Like that's a bisexual thing to do.

You're listening to Sex with Emily. I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex.

So question for you. How do you know if you're bisexual? Well, in honor of bisexuality, visibility day, author Jen Winston helps me answer just that.

In her book, greedy notes from bisexual who wants too much, Jen reveals how she came to terms with her bisexuality in a world that loves to slap stereotypes on it. You're greedy, you're slutty, and constantly confused.

Whether you're a vulva owner in a heterosexual partnership who wants to explore same sex fantasies or a penis owner who has recently come out as gay, but still has thoughts about the opposite sex.

We answer those questions and more in this episode. And Jen helps us all understand why sexuality is about so much more than who you're sleeping with.

All right, intentions with Emily for each episode join me in setting an intention for the show. So right now you chose to listen to this show.

What do you want to get out of this episode? How will this episode help you?

Well, my intention is to help you open up your mind to sexuality and relationship preferences, whether you're gay, straight, bisexual, polyamorous, monotonous, or somewhere in between.

Our sexuality is a journey that deserves compassion and patience.

I'm very excited, you guys, because you're all invited. I'm doing a live event in Los Angeles with my good friend, Dr. Jennifer Fried.

She's a psychological astrologer. You've probably heard the episodes I've done with her. And it's at Dynasty typewriter on Friday, October 7th at 6 p.m.

We talk about her new book, A Map to Your Soul.

What we talk about how to really nurture yourself and just live your potential with this really accessible guide in her new book. And we talk about the elements like fire, earth, air, and water.

We talk about astrology and Jen is goops resident psychological astrologer. She's fantastic. I can't wait to see you there.

We will put a ticket link in this show note. So I hope to see you all there.

If you want to ask me a question, leave me your questions or message me at sex with Emily calm slash ask Emily or calm my hotline 559 talk sex or 559 8255739.

Just include your name your age where you live and how you listen to the show. And it's totally cool to change your name or choose to remain anonymous.

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