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April welcome to the program.

Hi, how are you?

Good, what can I do for you?

I was calling because actually my husband introduced me to your show he listens to it on his way to and from work

and I never heard of it and he told me about your book so I just ordered it but in the past you know two weeks I've listened to a lot of the

podcast and I'm thinking in my head you know what I said to him I'm going to call

her to see what she has to say just to see what she

has to say but I had questions so I'm not hopefully doesn't hear it but I had a

question a lot of the podcast of one of my biggest issues in my relationship is

affection so a lot of your stuff is about you know women showing their men affection and basically being I guess you

would say the more person to put it out there. My question for you is we have a lot of

children we've been married for only four years but we've known each other for a very long time.

And we did have some, we do have trust issues. There was some adultery in there my question is how I'm sorry in four

years there was adultery what you talking about four years I don't know where when how but there was yeah.

Well how do you know if you don't know who where why how do you know it happened?

He did he did admit it he told me but I did it tell you what did he tell you what

did he tell you that he cheated on me and I was pregnant at the time.

My question, the biggest question is, the biggest question is,

I don't know, the question is,

how can you cheat on somebody, but yeah, left and right,

so I am much. left and right

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