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Ask Father Josh (Your Catholic Question and Answer Podcast)

All About Living a Chaste Life (Even after Lost Virginity)

Ask Father Josh (Your Catholic Question and Answer Podcast)

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🗓️ 14 January 2020

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

In today’s episode, Father Josh answers questions about the call and the challenge to pursue a chaste life. He answers a question from a mother who suspects her son is gay, a young woman who wants to enter the religious life but lost her virginity in college, and a listener looking for recommended chastity speakers.

**Snippet from the Show
**There’s no person in this world that can ever satiate the infinite ache that exists in your heart—only the infinite God can quench that thirst.

**My Son Might Be Gay
**Father Josh,
We love our son unconditionally. The struggle is not our love for our son but the struggle he will have. We suspect that he is gay. He has not told us, but we don’t want to confront him, but do not want him to feel he has to hide. We raised him Catholic and know he has an incredible love of people and is so kind. My fear is the teaching of the church will push him away from it.
He deserves to be loved and have a family. Besides loving him how can we help him and walk with him?
He is a good beautiful man.
Thank you

**Are there any Catholic African American speakers who speak about Chastity?
**I want my grandchildren to see people who look like them speak about the call to chastity. Do you have any recommendations?

**Which John Wrote the Book of Revelation?
**Dear Father Josh, Which John wrote the Book of Revelation? John the Baptist, John the apostle? My brother and I were discussing and weren't sure if the Catholic Church specifically states which John wrote it. Thank you for all you do to spread the Good News!! Your choice to do so is a blessing! Thank you, Anonymous.

**
Can I be a religious sister if I lost my virginity? **
Fr. Josh!!! First things first I wish I could've run into you at SLS because I wanted to personally thank you for all of the things that you do for your podcast and all the things it’s done for me. It is crazy how God uses you, like literally whenever I get a question in my head about our faith, usually the next episode is the answer, or the person is going through the same thing as me, like the scrupulosity episode. You’re so cool dawg!! Anyway, my question involves religious life. Personally I feel that God has sent me an invitation to be a sister since I was 6, but I have never really accepted the call until now at 22. However in college I made bad decisions involving the use of drugs and alcohol, but my biggest regret of all was a relationship where I gave away my virginity. Although for the past 2.5 years I restored my faith in Jesus Christ and completely changed my life—surrendering it to him, I still find myself in the heap of regret, and somehow it will prevent me from entering into religious life. I feel like giving away my virginity prevents Christ from entering into divine intimacy with me fully. I feel as if my chances of being a sister are almost gone, if that makes sense? I am still discerning married life as well, but this invitation draws me more than ever before. I just have so much fear that my mistakes messed up everything. Anyway, GO TIGERS AND YOU ARE SUCH AN AMAZING LIGHT!! Keep singing!!
-Hannah

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0:00.0

What's up and welcome to Ask Father Jazz to podcast by get to listen to your questions, pray with them and hopefully respond in such a way that it's helpful for you and your walk toward eternity and your walk toward becoming the particular saint God or father desires for you and all of us to be.

0:15.0

Here's to the show goes you hit me up with three to five questions per episode dealing with everything from spiritual reality to the spiritual life relationship advice morality apologetics dogma catacetization discipleship relationship stuff whatever the list goes on I would inspent time to your questions pray with them and hopefully respond in such a way that's good.

0:35.0

Disclaimer is this though I'm not perfect I am a broken imperfect sinner myself.

0:41.0

Every now and then I might give advice that is not good for you if that's the case I want to give you the freedom to reject.

0:46.0

Whatever it is that I say that is not help you to be a saint however if my advice is helpful the difficult then I really want to encourage you to lean into Jesus Christ that our Lord can give you the graces that you need to fulfill the demands of discipleship.

1:00.0

If you're first time listening to shoot me an email feedback from today's show at ask for the Josh at such a press calm you can also hit me up with ideas for future shows as well you can also rate us and viewers on iTunes that helps other people find that about the show and you can share some of your social media pages once again that will also help more people find that about the show and as of today you can officially pre order pocket guide the adoration and at such a press calm that's my new book all about adoration the bus of sacrament what do we do when we go to

1:29.9

the adoration how do we pray when we're sitting before the bus of sacrament and so that is available now you can pre order it pocket guide adoration at as such a press calm and you can also text ask father Josh all one word to three three seven seven seven for a chance to win a free copy of pocket guide adoration and we're going to announce the winners February 4th the winners will be announced so begin texting three three seven seven seven ask for the Josh and you may win a free copy of my book but you could even if you win a free copy of my book.

1:58.9

You could even if you win a free copy of your still buy it because he should anyways on today's show we have a number of really cool topics we're going to talk about parenting children who have same satisfaction we're going to talk about the biblical author of the book of revelation we're going to talk about people who are discerning religious life but have been sexually active in their past and we're going to give a shout out to some of the African American speakers Catholic speakers who address the topic of chastity but before we get into those beautiful topics.

2:28.9

I want to share Glowestore.

2:39.9

All right so my Glowestore this week it could be from anything because I've just had a phenomenal month since since December now we're in January I was at the SLS conference

2:50.9

ran some beautiful people there have had really great time with Jesus in prayer and so I mean I honestly I don't know where to start because there's some of Glowestores but I will limit it to one it's been praying with my staff and specifically praying with Christ in this beautiful book in senior Yezoo when heart speaks to heart the journal of a priest at prayer.

3:15.9

All right so as y'all know I like to read books a lot and this book is becoming one of my favorites actually but you know it's from a priest who allegedly had these like locations of hearing Jesus speak to him before the bus of sacrament and it's all about adoration and again I say allegedly because it might not be real but if it is I just want to say I like what Jesus allegedly said to him because man it really pierced my heart and it's been beautiful how my staff and my team here at Holy Rosary they they've

3:45.9

prayed so everyone on my staff does a holy hour every week and it's really beautiful because we really want to rely on Jesus and his grace to fulfill the demands of discipleship in the ministry we're doing here in the parish but obviously we all get distracted and stuff like that and so this passage has been very

4:00.4

consoling for most of us on my team at Holy Rosary so I'm going to read it to you because you might have experienced distractions in prayer and if you do my new book pocket guide adoration can help you with that I have a lot of tools and techniques that are very specific to how do we avoid distractions but

4:15.7

this is something that God allegedly said to this monk in this book in senior Jesus that I'm going to share with you here's what the Lord allegedly said you think that your inability to pray without

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distractions is an obstacle to my grace where that so I would not have been able to sanctify a great number of those who my church honors as saints distractions when they are not

4:37.5

entertained willfully are no obstacle to my work in a soul my grace passes through them to touch the center of the soul where all is still an

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erroneous for my healing and sanctifying touch come to me with the lily desire to surrender that is sufficient come to me from my

4:54.4

sake to offer me your companionship as an expression of grateful love I need nothing from you my heart desire is to respond to all your

5:04.4

needs within abundance of spiritual gifts my heart desire is to draw you into the closest union with myself I'm not a task mask or

5:12.3

prayer I then ask you if anything burdensome or difficult to achieve I ask you to offer me the

5:17.8

companionship of a loving friend in the affection of your heart I ask you to remain in my presence

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