So we've asked ourselves the question, why don't we have boundaries? Why don't we not have boundaries?

We all would agree that boundaries are good when they're motivated in love and by God.

But why do we not have them? And you said there's two reasons why.

There's at least two. The two that I found, they're either unclear or unsaid.

You don't know what the boundaries are or we just haven't articulated what they are,

with enough clarity to be able to actually see them. And the second one is they're unenforced.

Either they're unclear, unsaid or unenforced. And so I don't know, I think a lot of

couple struggle with both aspects of that. Because like you said, I think everybody it can agree,

boundaries are good. They are proper, they're good for health and your marriage. And they are

useful as we typically say. They're useful for keeping good things in bad things out.

But how do we go about enforcing these boundaries and clarifying what our boundaries are

and articulating what our boundaries are. And so that's exactly what this episode is all about.

And we will see you on the other side. Welcome to the fierce marriage podcast where we believe

that marriage takes a fierce tenacity that never gives up and refuses to give in.

Here we'll share openly and honestly about all things marriage,

sex, communication, finance, and priorities, purpose, and everything in between.

Laugh, ponder, and join in on Candid Gospel Center conversations.

This is fierce marriage.

So April fools on us. We already recorded this episode, literally like five minutes ago.

And somebody didn't check my mic. So it sounds like I'm talking in the room somewhere else.

It's your mic, not mine. So you should choose. You should choose.

You're responsible for your own mic. You're the controller.

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