All About Attachment Styles
Fierce Marriage
Ryan and Selena Frederick
4.9 • 4.3K Ratings
🗓️ 26 January 2021
⏱️ 52 minutes
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Summary
Attachment styles are all about the way you interact the way you do, particularly around need, affection, and conflict. In this episode we talked through the four common attachment styles for relationships and, as usual, looked at Scripture to see how the gospel informs this area of marriage. We hope it blesses you!
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| 0:00.0 | So why is it important for us to know how we attach to each other? |
| 0:05.0 | And I don't mean that sexually. |
| 0:06.2 | Don't be gross people. |
| 0:07.1 | All right. |
| 0:07.4 | Okay. |
| 0:08.3 | No one else thought that than you, weirdo. |
| 0:11.7 | Sorry. |
| 0:14.3 | That's okay. |
| 0:15.6 | Okay. |
| 0:16.0 | Why is it important that we attach to each other in marriage? |
| 0:18.9 | Well, what does that even mean? |
| 0:20.0 | More or less how we attach to each other or how, Well, what does that even mean? More or less how we |
| 0:21.1 | attach to each other or how what is attachment? As I just said, what does it even mean for marriage? |
| 0:26.3 | Because you hear about this attachment theory, at least I've heard it primarily with babies and |
| 0:31.5 | having kids. It's this theory of like, you know, you have to attach a primary caregiver. But |
| 0:36.7 | how does this look like? How does it affect marriage? How are we, I don't even know how of like, you know, you have to attach to primary caregiver. But how does this look |
| 0:38.0 | like? How does it affect marriage? How are we, I don't even know how to like portray the question. |
| 0:42.9 | Yeah. Because it feels like there's a lot to unpack there. Talking about, you know, family of origin |
| 0:47.8 | and how brokenness has affected us and sin, right? But then how does the gospel transform us to be able to have a healthy |
| 0:57.1 | attachment to our spouse, which then would cause, right, fruitfulness and flourishing and all the |
| 1:03.4 | promises of God from that point on? But where do we even begin? How do we recognize any of these |
| 1:10.0 | broken areas of attachment within our lives already? |
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