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We go through this every year, and I get reminded every year, which is another opportunity to work on it, is oh, there are so many times that either I don't agree with the choice my wife is making. We have three kids to raise. Sometimes I don't agree with the choices she makes for them. She doesn't agree with the

choices I make. We don't agree on hotel rooms. We don't agree on routes of travel. Like the amount of

stuff you can disagree about in a trip is pretty intense. And I can give a bunch of examples,

but I'm going to give one, I'll probably about to give one that works in my favor, but whatever.

We landed in Madrid and we were

driving to Porto in Portugal. Even in that part, Sophie initially was like, I don't want to get off a

plane and get in a car and drive six hours. I was like, well, I don't want to spend $900 after we

just got off a plane flying one hour. That was already a semi-fight. But then we get in the car.

And so we decided on the way

to stop at some small town in Spain and sleep because we had just traveled 15, 16 hours,

get one night of rest and then go to Portugal. We couldn't agree on what kind of hotel to stay in.

American hotels, I could kind of get used to the American hotels

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