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Rejuvenaging with Dr. Ron Kaiser

Alexandra Stockwell: Curiosity and Honesty are Fundamental for Relationships

Rejuvenaging with Dr. Ron Kaiser

Dr. Ron Kaiser

Rejuvenate, Age, Aging, Fitness & Nutrition, Mental, Self-help, Gym, Doctor, Health, Fitness, Emotional Health

5.01.4K Ratings

🗓️ 15 October 2019

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

When we are young and fall in love, we are eager to find out everything we can about our significant other and we ask and get asked a lot of questions and we receive honest answers from one another. But oftentimes, as we grow old together, and as other things become more important, we tend to believe that we know one another and we stop being curious about their lives and we unconsciously stop being honest with our feelings.


On today’s episode, Alexandra and I are discussing relationships at any age, about the problems with relationship and sexual education in the United States and what do we need to do to have a happy, joyful and healthy life as a couple.


Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is a relationship and intimacy expert and she helps couples create Conscious Partnerships that are juicy, sensual, and dynamic, in order to prevent the “conscious uncoupling” that’s become so common these days. As a wife of 23 years and a mother of four, she believes that the key to passion, fulfillment, intimacy, and success in a couple’s relationship isn’t compromise but rather being unwilling to compromise.


For over 20 years, she has shown men and women how to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of their lives, from the daily grind of running a household to successfully growing a business and creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom.


So, listen to Episode 13 of Rejuvenaging, to learn how Alexandra helps build connected and happy families through facilitating healing and transformation of couples.


Questions I ask:

  • Can you give us a little bit of introduction to yourself, by describing your journey to us? (02:55)
  • What do you really do on a day-to-day basis? (08:27)
  • If gratifying relationship is a learnable skill, why aren’t we doing a better job of teaching it? (10:49)
  • Do you work with people who may not be a couple at this point but it's learning how to get back into how to be somebody with their identity as they move forward? (24:14)
  • How can people get in touch with you and what is your gift to them? (36:29)


In this episode, you will learn:

  • One of the principles that are essential in understanding how being in a relationship is a learned skill. (13:09)
  • The meaning of conflict-free and passion-free relationship. (15:17)
  • Cultivating curiosity as one of the six essential qualities of conscious partnership. (19:21)
  • Growth mindset versus fixed mindset – their impact especially in the third part of people’s lives. (25:30)
  • Embracing honesty as one of the six essential qualities of conscious partnership. (29:54)


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Music

0:20.0

Welcome to Rejuvenaging with Dr. Ron Kaiser.

0:24.0

This is the podcast that's devoted to living enthusiastically

0:28.0

today and tomorrow and every other day of your life.

0:32.0

Our podcast brings guests to you who live their own lives enthusiastically and have guidance to enable you to do so in your own lives

0:42.0

and be the most effective and best version of yourself that you can be.

0:48.0

I am your host, Ron Kaiser. I'm a positive health psychologist and also author of the award-winning and best-selling book Rejuvenaging

0:57.0

The Art and Science of Growing Older with Enthesiasm.

1:01.0

And today I'm really proud and happy to welcome our guest who is going to give us lots of information useful for individuals of every age.

1:13.0

Alex Andrews-Stockwell-MB is a physician who turned relationship and intimacy expert.

1:21.0

We're going to have to find out about that. She's known as the Relationship Catalyst.

1:27.0

As a wife of 23 years and a mother of four, she believes that the key to passion, fulfillment, intimacy and success in a couple's relationship isn't compromised.

1:40.0

I better make sure my wife doesn't listen to this one but it's not compromised but rather being unwilling to compromise.

1:48.0

Because when both people feel free to be themselves and know how to love and be loved for exactly who they are, the relationship is juicy, nourishing and deeply satisfying.

2:02.0

For over 20 years she has shown men and women how to bring pleasure and purpose into their lives, all aspects of their lives, from the daily grind of running a household to successfully growing a business,

2:16.0

to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom.

2:20.0

Alexandra helps build connected and happy families through facilitating healing and transformation of couples.

2:30.0

That's an amazing amount of stuff to do but I know having met Alexandra that she is very, very capable of doing it.

2:39.0

So we've got a real treat in store for you and Alexandra, welcome to Rejuvenaging with Dr. Ron Kaiser.

2:47.0

I'm so grateful to be here. I love your topic and I really am glad to contribute to what you bring to people.

2:54.0

Well, I'm sure you're going to contribute a lot but I can't get too far into it before I'm always interested in people's journey as to how they became who they became and who they are now.

3:07.0

And I obviously had to be struck by the notion of physician-turned relationship expert and working in a medical school, I see all these young men and women put in their time and grind and so on to become physicians.

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