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Sex With Emily

AITA for Wanting Less Sex?

Sex With Emily

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.36.8K Ratings

🗓️ 12 January 2024

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

Sometimes, in our sex lives and relationships, it can be easy to wonder: Am I the Asshole? Don’t worry, because in today’s episode, Producer Erica and I are letting you know if you’re approaching asshole territory in your sexual situations, like: AITA for wanting oral sex every time, not just on special occasions? AITA for rejecting my partner’s advances in the middle of the night? Or how about: AITA for getting upset when my partner turns me down? It’s a juicy one. In today’s episode, you’ll learn: Creative solutions for mismatched libidos What to do if you’re in a sexless relationship Tips for healthy sex conversations See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Show Notes: How to Initiate Sex Bathmate (code EMILY10 for 10% off sitewide) Tips for Better Communication & Other Guides SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

If ever sometimes with our partners say things, we sometimes, especially when it comes to sex, we just accept it, like, okay, that's your

0:08.8

belief around it, but we're also allowed to get curious.

0:11.6

I ask questions, like like tell me more about,

0:13.7

you know, your early messaging around sex,

0:15.5

or tell me more about why it's important for you to wait,

0:17.2

or tell me more about what about our sex life

0:19.2

do you like, and what is interesting to you.

0:20.9

And if he says to you, I just don't think sex is important.

0:23.4

I don't care if I have sex or not.

0:24.7

Let's find out more.

0:25.5

But if he says that, then I think that that is grounds to end a relationship.

0:28.8

You're listening to Sex With Emily.

0:31.9

I'm Dr. Emily, and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex.

0:38.0

Sometimes in our sex lives and relationships, it can be easy to wonder,

0:42.6

am I the asshole?

0:44.0

Well, don't worry, because in today's episode,

0:46.0

producer Eric and I are letting you know

0:47.6

if you're approaching asshole territory

0:49.9

in your sexual situations, like,

0:51.7

am I the asshole for wanting oral sex every time, not just on special occasions?

0:56.3

Or am I the asshole for rejecting my partner's advances in the middle of the night?

1:00.0

This is a juicy one.

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