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Now today's first story comes from Snoomacaroons 768 who says, am I the arseol for

not letting my child speak her native language at home?

Title isn't as bad as it sounds.

My 35 male wife, 32 female, is Welsh and I am English. but if you get right down to it we're both

British anyway she's always been kind of funny about identifying as Welsh and not British

no matter how many times I tell her they're not mutually exclusive lol I'm really tired of having

to put up with her extreme nationalism first of all she insisted that our daughter have a Welsh name, so now my family can't even

pronounce it or spell it.

I have to put up with jokes about my daughter's name all the time, and her name getting

spelled wrong all the time.

The only primary school in the area is a Welsh school, so my daughter has started learning

all her schoolwork through Welsh. This is fine, I guess. It's pointless, but other than not

being able to help her with her homework, which her mum does anyway, it's not an issue. The issue is

is that my daughter has started speaking Welsh with her mother's family, her mother and her

friends outside of school. I asked her to stop, but my wife said I was being really rude to

ask her to stop speaking in her native language. But she can speak English too. It's not a native

language when her father doesn't speak it. My wife said I'm an asshole because I agreed to raise our child bilingually, but I was

under the impression that our daughter would still choose to speak English because it's all

around us.

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