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Love Over Addiction

After You Leave: What To Expect

Love Over Addiction

Michelle Anderson

Society & Culture, Wifeofanalcoholic, Codependency, Relationships, Recovery, Alanon

4.81.5K Ratings

🗓️ 26 September 2021

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

When you love someone struggling with addiction, there's usually a rollercoaster of emotions - feeling hopeful for their recovery, only to then feel disappointed when they can't get sober. Over and over again. Not only is this frustrating, but it's an unhealthy cycle for you, as well.

So if you've finally reached a point that enough is enough and you've decided to leave, then what?

Tune in to this new episode to hear why it's time to take ownership of your life and what that may look like.

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https://loveoveraddiction.com/after-you-leave/


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0:00.0

You're listening to the Love Over Addiction Podcast.

0:17.9

Hey, how are you?

0:19.9

Okay, today we're going to talk about what it's like to leave someone when you love someone

0:26.3

struggling with addiction.

0:28.5

So like the common thread, the common denominator that we all struggle with, everyone in our

0:34.9

community, struggle with is whether we should leave or whether we should stay.

0:41.7

If you love someone struggling with addiction, it can feel incredibly, at moments, incredibly

0:48.4

hopeful because you finally think they've had the breakthrough through that you've been

0:53.1

waiting for and that they've finally made the commitment to getting sober once and

0:58.0

for all and that everything's going to be okay.

1:01.9

And then usually, eventually, they decide that they can't handle it and want and choose

1:11.1

to use drugs or alcohol or whatever they're addicted to and you get your heart broken.

1:17.3

You feel disappointed.

1:19.2

It's usually the cycle of what it's like to love someone struggling with addiction.

1:25.2

And usually that cycle is incredibly devastating and lonely and frustrating.

1:36.4

And each one of us, when loving someone struggling with addiction, has a line in the sand.

1:43.0

All of us do.

1:44.8

We have this line and for everyone, it's different where if it's eventually crossed, we know

1:51.8

we need to leave this relationship.

1:55.9

Now for some of us, an example of a line would be infidelity, right?

2:00.0

Our loved one cheats on us and for some of us, that's it.

2:04.2

We're out.

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