After Sex Behavior, How To Bring Up Getting Tested, And Sexual Symmetry ft. Dr. Stephen De Wit
We Met At Acme
Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
4.2 • 2.4K Ratings
🗓️ 16 August 2020
⏱️ 60 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, I virtually sit back down with sexologist Dr. Stephen De Wit. We discuss sexual symmetry, how to act after sex, bringing up getting STD tested and COVID tested, the 5 step process of trying something in the bedroom and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss not wanting to settle down in the same place, taking stresses out on a partner, in-laws, jealousy of SO’s friendships, Married At First Sight, and The Single Wives.
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| 0:00.0 | The following podcast is a deer media production. |
| 0:06.6 | Hey guys, welcome back to We Met It Acme. I'm really excited for this episode today with a |
| 0:11.9 | doctor. So you can find out all about your sexual symmetry and more. I feel like we haven't |
| 0:19.5 | talked about sex a lot in the past few episodes. So just want to, you know, get back into it a |
| 0:25.9 | little bit. But before we switch it over to the episode with Dr. Stephen DuWitt, I would love to |
| 0:32.8 | talk to you about some of the things you wrote in about. The first one is not wanting to settle down |
| 0:38.0 | in the same place ultimately. When you don't want to settle down in the same place as a new partner |
| 0:47.1 | or, you know, a partner that you've had for a while and you still don't agree on settling down |
| 0:52.0 | in the same place, it's really tough because that's your future. And you don't want to be compromising |
| 0:59.4 | something that you've always wanted for a partner. You really want to be on the same page. So like, |
| 1:04.8 | I have tons of friends who, you know, live in New York now, but are thinking about raising a family |
| 1:09.8 | in LA and vice versa. And I know that all of them are on the same page no matter what they end up |
| 1:16.1 | doing. They're on the same page. So I would say it is a little scary if you're not on the same |
| 1:22.5 | page about it. And one of you is going to have to back down. And so if that can't happen, I would |
| 1:30.4 | say it's a big red flag. How to not take your stresses out on your partner. Well, that's really |
| 1:37.3 | hard because like you're, you know, with your partner all the time right now if you're still |
| 1:43.0 | quarantining, which hopefully you should be. So I know what everyone going out and partying right |
| 1:47.6 | now is not, it's not cute and you need to stop. But it's really hard not to take things out on |
| 1:54.3 | your partner. I mean, I've done it. Everyone has done it who's quarantining, you know, with them 24 |
| 2:00.4 | seven. But I think you need to take some space for yourself. You need to do something for you and |
| 2:08.0 | not change your schedule for them. I know, you know, today's Monday and I love to go on walks |
| 2:15.7 | on the weekends. And my boyfriend wasn't feeling well yesterday. And so I didn't end up going on a walk |
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