Hey 413ers, Jennifer Rothschild here, Bonnie Gray and I were not done talking when episode

200 ended, so here's the rest of the conversation, and it's all about being comfortable with

ourselves and being cheerleaders for each other, so I had just told Bonnie that I was wearing

black and gray, which if you heard the end of episode 200, that'll make sense to you,

but here's the thing, I told her that black and gray has become my new normal because

then I just don't have to take so much time or use so much emotion trying to decide

what to wear, and it works for me. So anyway, then Bonnie and I went a direction that I did

not expect, and it was so rich, so I want you to join us and listen to the rest of this

conversation between me and Bonnie Gray, and then don't forget to go to the show notes

at 413podcast.com slash 200. All right, here's the rest of the convo with me and Bonnie.

I was just sharing it, yeah, I was just like, I don't know, I just felt like the whole color

thing and the whole clothes things, it was just, it was on my heart, I'm like, okay, women

need to hear this, which is very true. I'll get calls from my friends, they'll be like,

our FaceTime, you know, like, which one should I pick? It's like, what ever makes you happy,

girl? We don't hear that enough, right? No, we don't hear that enough. I mean, we tell

that to our kids, but it's like, we need to help each other, we need to repair in each other.

So those are things that I would never have called my friends for before. It would seem like I was

telling you. Yeah, exactly. Yeah, no, it's not dumb. Here's the thing, the older I get,

the more I realize nothing is dumb because the things you choose to think are dumb become

issues. So create non-issues by thinking nothing's dumb and just being honest about everything.

It's simpler. Okay, right there, you need to put that in. This is great. That's right there.

It's something you could take and use right away. Okay, sure. All right. That was so good. Okay,

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