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🗓️ 9 April 2024
⏱️ 91 minutes
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On this challenging episode, I talk with author and psychoanalyst Avgi Saketopoulou about how to reframe what trauma is, and how to think beyond consent.
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0:00.0 | Hello, friends. This is Against Everyone with Connor Habib. Trauma is a relationship to time, |
0:08.0 | but it's a strange relationship, a surprising relationship. I think the way that trauma is |
0:15.0 | often conceived of is there's been some event or an impression of an event that planted a flag or a stake or drew a line |
0:26.1 | in the past and that we become tethered to that, that we can't move in a way as a result of it. |
0:35.3 | So that if you imagine someone tetherether to a stake in the ground, |
0:39.7 | you can imagine some of the things that would happen if they try to run away from it. |
0:45.4 | And those would look like trauma responses, shaking, shuddering, paralysis, seizures. |
0:52.1 | And then, of course, there's the element of the displacement of time, the way that time feels strange when a traumatic event is happening. |
1:02.0 | As a result, a lot of models of trauma have to do with looking at where that stake was planted or that flag and pulling it out of the ground. |
1:15.6 | Maybe the thought is if we just kind of undo that somehow, we'll return to a pre-traumatic state |
1:24.1 | or be healed or recover from the trauma. |
1:35.1 | Perhaps that works for some people, but it might be interesting to think of what trauma is if it wants to move with us. |
1:40.4 | In other words, if this event or impressions of events wants to move with us in our present |
1:47.0 | and into our future, and it's asking us to move, to keep pace with it in a way, so that maybe |
1:56.0 | we're the ones that aren't moving, that the trauma isn't a static thing that just creates a feeling of |
2:02.6 | recursion of the past, but it's actually a living and dynamic thing that's constantly unfolding |
2:09.4 | and can offer something to us. I'm not suggesting, by the way, that you base what you do with your trauma on this. |
2:20.3 | However, it will open up a bit more in the episode with someone who is a professional, |
2:26.3 | the psychoanalyst Avi Sakatopolu. |
2:30.3 | Right now, the world is a generator of mass future trauma. |
2:36.0 | Of course, the world is always generating trauma, but it's rarely been as obvious in my lifetime and probably yours as it is now. |
2:44.0 | We can really anticipate a future of people dealing with the violence done to them or their families or having done violence |
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