Advice From an Intimacy Expert (w/ Shan Boodram)
Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer
Headgum & Nicole Byer
4.9 • 16K Ratings
🗓️ 6 October 2023
⏱️ 57 minutes
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Summary
Sexologist and intimacy expert Shan Boodram (Sexology, Lovers & Friends) joins Nicole to teach her how to radiate better vibes on dates, master the art of life goal prioritization, and explore the intriguing concept of marriage pacts. Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be the intimacy coordinator on 'Too Hot to Handle'? Shan spills all the beans on that and more. Plus she gets personal, revealing how she turned a fuckbuddy into a spouse, and shares the guidelines governing her non-monogamous relationship.
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| 0:00.0 | Why won't you date me, why won't you date me, why won't you date me, please, tell me why. |
| 0:18.0 | Oh baby, welcome to another episode of why won't you date me, a podcast or a medical |
| 0:27.4 | buyer is exploring love and stuff with people I think are interesting. |
| 0:32.4 | My guest today is a certified sexologist and intimacy expert. |
| 0:36.6 | She's hosted shows like Sexology, MTV's Guide to Sex and her podcast Lovers and Friends. |
| 0:42.4 | Her new reality dating show The Marriage Pack is now streaming, ooh and I'm so excited |
| 0:48.6 | to have her today and maybe her expertise can help me find someone, not anyone, because |
| 0:54.9 | I'm no longer picky. |
| 0:55.9 | I'm looking for something specific, it's Shan Boudrum. |
| 0:59.0 | Yay, I don't even know how to match that energy, oh I have energy for days. |
| 1:09.3 | Shan thank you so much for being here. |
| 1:11.3 | Oh thank you for having me, it's such a joy, congrats on all your success, I've just |
| 1:14.7 | been such an admirer of your work and it's an honor to be here and I was actually telling |
| 1:20.0 | your producer that knowing that you have done this is 2017 is insane, insane, podcasting |
| 1:28.6 | is hard. |
| 1:29.6 | It is hard and with my schedule, it's been wild, I can't believe I ever used to do these |
| 1:35.3 | in person, but I am starting to like do them in person again, but it is, it is pretty |
| 1:40.2 | fucking wild. |
| 1:41.2 | Yeah, it's pretty wild, so that's actually a good little hack there to do the remote |
| 1:45.2 | ones and remote in many cases, that was the gift of the pandemic, it taught us that intimacy |
| 1:51.0 | is not bound by in person interaction, so we could still create a flow and still have |
| 1:55.9 | a great time through this experience, but I do mind in person still, maybe that's the |
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