Why won't you date me, why won't you date me, why won't you date me, please, tell me why.

Oh baby, welcome to another episode of why won't you date me, a podcast or a medical

buyer is exploring love and stuff with people I think are interesting.

My guest today is a certified sexologist and intimacy expert.

She's hosted shows like Sexology, MTV's Guide to Sex and her podcast Lovers and Friends.

Her new reality dating show The Marriage Pack is now streaming, ooh and I'm so excited

to have her today and maybe her expertise can help me find someone, not anyone, because

I'm no longer picky.

I'm looking for something specific, it's Shan Boudrum.

Yay, I don't even know how to match that energy, oh I have energy for days.

Shan thank you so much for being here.

Oh thank you for having me, it's such a joy, congrats on all your success, I've just

been such an admirer of your work and it's an honor to be here and I was actually telling

your producer that knowing that you have done this is 2017 is insane, insane, podcasting

is hard.

It is hard and with my schedule, it's been wild, I can't believe I ever used to do these

in person, but I am starting to like do them in person again, but it is, it is pretty

fucking wild.

Yeah, it's pretty wild, so that's actually a good little hack there to do the remote

ones and remote in many cases, that was the gift of the pandemic, it taught us that intimacy

is not bound by in person interaction, so we could still create a flow and still have

a great time through this experience, but I do mind in person still, maybe that's the

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