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Personality Hacker Podcast

Advice For Unhappily Married ESFJ and INTJ Relationship | 10 Min Type Advice | S01:E03

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4.91.9K Ratings

🗓️ 9 February 2022

⏱️ 16 minutes

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Summary

In this episode Joel and Antonia answer an ESFJ listener's question about how to heal her unhappy marriage to her INTJ husband.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to 10 Minute Type Advice by Personality Hacker.

0:10.9

I'm Joel Mark Whit and I'm Antonia Dodge.

0:13.5

This show features questions from the Personality Hacker community that we answer at about 10

0:18.6

minutes.

0:19.6

We've been using personality types in our coaching for years and we'd love to answer

0:23.7

your questions about personal growth through the lens of type.

0:27.9

You can find out more about us at personalityhacker.com.

0:31.6

Okay, now let's hear today's question.

0:34.6

Your podcast has absolutely blown me away.

0:37.4

I recently ran into the Myers-Briggs test and since then I've been reading everything

0:41.0

I can on the different personality types.

0:44.2

I am an ESFJ.

0:47.3

So my issue is my marriage.

0:49.0

I have been unhappily married for almost 18 years and have been desperately concerned

0:53.7

with what's wrong with me.

0:55.6

Discovering my Myers-Briggs type has helped me see that who I am is actually okay.

1:01.8

Interestingly enough, everything I read says my type is not compatible with my husband's

1:06.4

type, which is INTJ.

1:09.7

Listening to your podcast about his type explains a lot, but I've struggled to find information

1:14.5

on how to make our incompatible marriage work.

1:17.4

I've heard you say that any two types can get along.

1:21.2

I've always felt disrespected and undervalued.

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