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Today, as we start this episode of Address the Mess, I want to talk to all the single

ladies, all the single ladies, all the single ladies, okay so single ladies if you look

up here for just a second, okay here here's the imagine is you gotta imagine you're on

a date, first date with this guy, you don't know this guy at all, somebody set you up.

You're at a pretty nice restaurant, not too nice, you know, not too un nice, everything's

going well.

In fact, the conversation's going so well that you decide to press in a little bit and ask

him a little bit about himself and so you ask a question about his future.

I don't know what words you would use, it's like hey do you have any goals, what's the future

look like for you, what are your plans.

As soon as you say this, he sits up straight and he says three things and you're thinking,

wow, I say goals, he says three things, this guy's thinking ahead, this is a first you

know for a guy and so you're pretty excited and he says yeah, I have three goals, my first

goal is not to lose my current job, it's like okay, second goal not to get another DUI.

My third goal is not to get another girl pregnant, yeah it's like ah, okay thanks for sharing

your goals, you know, it's like okay, now I want you to hold on to that awkwardness and

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