Acting Dopey & Needy & Too Many Dates Too Soon Delays The Relationship Talk
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
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🗓️ 6 January 2026
⏱️ 25 minutes
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Join this channel to get access to exclusive members only videos:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQTAVxA4dNBCoPdHhX9nnoQ/joinJoin Members Only On My Website. 7 day free trial. Save 25% when you choose an annual Membership plan. Cancel anytime:https://understandingrelationships.com/plansJoin Members Only on Spotify:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coachcoreywayne/subscribeThe importance of taking measured steps so she falls in love quickly.In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who met a woman he really liked. He acted dopey at times and also needy and impatient. She started jerking him around and he pursued too much and tried to set way too many dates too soon. It’s now been over 3 months and 20 dates later and she’s not in love and she isn’t ready for a relationship. He wonders why.If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B01EIA86VC/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-057626&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_057626_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:http://amzn.to/1XKRtxdHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B07B3LCDKK/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-109399&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_109399_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/2TQV2XoHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUoYou can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/33K8VwFHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne, and this is my video coaching newsletter, and the topic of today's |
| 0:05.3 | newsletter is going to be, acting dopey and needy and too many dates too soon delays the relationship |
| 0:11.7 | talk. Well, this is a good email. It just shows even guys that are a little older. This guy's |
| 0:17.9 | 50 years old. He's learning this stuff for the first time. |
| 0:22.1 | When a guy really likes the girl, it's really hard to control his emotions. |
| 0:26.4 | And so he gets impatient. |
| 0:28.4 | He's double texting. |
| 0:31.1 | He's having a date, talking about future dates while he's on the date he's on. |
| 0:36.6 | And then he drops her off. off she says thanks for a good date |
| 0:40.6 | an hour or two later then he tries to set the next date and so you can tell he's a little dopey over her |
| 0:46.1 | and he's clearly communicated that he's way more into her than she isn't him and we all know |
| 0:51.8 | that women like you more if it's the other way around, if they think |
| 0:54.4 | that they like you more than you like them. They prefer it that way even though they'll say otherwise, |
| 1:00.5 | it drives them crazy, but in a good way. It makes them really work to win you over and keep you. |
| 1:07.0 | But when you over pursue like this guy, so there are three months down the road and 20 plus |
| 1:14.0 | dates, she's not in love, and I guess he's met her father and he's kind of like, oh, when are you |
| 1:20.5 | guys going to get serious? And she's like, oh, hey, dad, don't pressure us. So it's pretty clear that |
| 1:26.5 | she's emotionally not in the same place that this guy is and it's just as a |
| 1:30.0 | result of his over-eagerness his acting dopey a little too nice too available too much too soon |
| 1:37.4 | just kind of smothering her so it's a good email of what not to do but every guy struggles with it i mean you guys are read 3% man i mean i struggle it was it's a hell email of what not to do, but every guy struggles with it. |
| 1:44.4 | I mean, you guys are read 3% man. |
| 1:46.2 | I mean, I struggle. |
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