Hey Jim Daley here. If you like the focus on the family broadcast and haven't

grown tired of this voice just yet, you'll love my ReFocus podcast. On ReFocus I

take a deeper dive with a respected thinker on different aspects of culture. I

ask those hard questions that maybe they don't get that often and I don't

shy away from challenging topics to help you share God's grace, truth, and love

with others. So listen to ReFocus with Jim Daley on your favorite streaming app

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Imagine if you were in the military and you alone were given the task of taking

an entire army down by yourself. It sounds like an impossible task doesn't it?

On the same way, your marriage facing a crisis, you can't do it alone. It's

critical to surround yourself with people who can help you. I'm John Fuller

along with Greg and Aaron Smalley. They lead our marriage department here and

we're going to begin with the continuation of a conversation Jim Daley and I

had with Mark and Jill Savage. In previous episodes, Mark had confessed to Jill

that he'd had an affair and they went through a roller coaster recovery

process. Here now they discuss some things that helped them reset after the

devastating betrayal. You speak to this idea of the gift of accountability. So

let's move through that. You guys, you know, you're in a better place. What is

the gift of accountability now? Well, I think an unhealthy view of accountability

is that someone is there to police another person's life. And that's incredibly

unhealthy. The gift of accountability is that I would stay, I would push

information to Jill about where I was going, what I was doing, not out of

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