Good morning gorgeous. How are you doing this morning? I hope you're doing

wonderful. Welcome to the Dr. Dab show. I'm your host Dr. Daph and we're continuing our book series,

understanding the purpose and power of women, and we are talking today about a woman's sexual needs and a man's sexual needs.

This is one of those topics that I don't think it's talked about enough and especially in the church world and the body of Christ.

There's all this like hush hush hush hush hush when it comes to sex when it comes to marriage the ins and outs of different things that we experience and we're all

experiencing the same thing.

So it's just kind of interesting how we don't talk about it.

There's a lot of shame around sex.

There's a lot of like discomfort around sex and depending on how you grew up maybe you were not taught.

I know I wasn't. I wasn't even allowed to say the word boys.

Yet I was writing men, I was seeing them at school, after school, all kinds of stuff, and yet I wasn't allowed to actually talk about it or get

information and that was very harmful to me so I vowed as an adult that I would make sure to always talk about things that maybe aren't

talked about enough for people who didn't get it to be able to learn about it. And I do think that this is one of those areas that in

relationships can almost get like overshadowed in relationships. Sometimes that's all that's focused on. Like yeah,

maybe your mom and dad didn't talk to you about sex, but when you got into a

relationship that's all you do is have sex.

But yeah, you don't really understand it.

You don't really understand the dynamics of it.

You don't understand your body.

You don't even understand him. You're just going along with it because that's what you think he wants and that's what he says he wants or that's what the music is telling you and so you just kind of think that this is the most

important thing and it's extremely important but it's more important for you to know as a woman what you need, why you need it, what a man needs, why he needs it, and feel comfortable in it. That's really the main thing is to feel

comfortable in it because that discomfort is what causes a lot of behaviors to start popping up in your relationship and your marriage, that

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