We're supposed to pray for everybody, right?

Not according to Judy Starr.

She says a married woman shouldn't necessarily pray for all the men she knows.

If I am attracted to somebody, I of course care about them spiritually.

And so therefore I find myself wanting to pray for them, for their salvation, for their goodness and so forth.

And when I do that, all it does is bring

them up into my mind every single day and reinforce that growing relationship. So what I advise

women to do is don't pray for them, but to ask your accountability person to pray for them.

And then you're not constantly reinforcing those thoughts of that person in your mind.

It's Monday, February 6th, and you're not constantly reinforcing those thoughts of that person in your mind. It's Monday, February 6th, and you're listening to Revive Our Hearts with Nancy Lee DeMoss.

Because today's topic is more sensitive in nature, you might want to get your younger children busy somewhere away from the radio.

And don't forget, you can always listen later at our website, revive our hearts.com, if you want to.

Here's Nancy to introduce our guests.

Over the past several days, we've been addressing the very Here's Nancy to introduce our guests.

Over the past several days, we've been addressing the very tough but also really important issue of women and infidelity.

And I know that this series of programs has been a huge help, encouragement, conviction,

and challenge to many, many of the women who've written

to share with us that this is an issue in their lives. This is something they have struggled with.

And I'm so thankful, Judy, Starr, and Holly Eliff that you've had the courage, the willingness

to come and be with us on Revive Our Hearts and to share out of your own lives, out of your

experience, but most importantly from the Word of God, what we need to understand about this whole

issue. And that's what I love about God's word, is that it is applicable to every aspect

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