Dear young married couple, do you need a tool to rescue your toxic arguments?

We have a tool for you.

We do. We're going to dive into five steps that are part of this tool when things have just

kind of blown up and you're unsure about if it's even productive anymore.

Yeah.

And we're going to talk to you about how to rescue that today.

Right.

And we'll also get into the biology of what's, what's happening in people's bodies.

And, um, and why so many people fall into this cycle.

It's a very, very, very common cycle that we see in counseling.

Mm-hmm.

And, um, this tool is probably one of the most powerful. And one of

the first things that we normally want to give couples that are in this toxic cycle of arguing

and it really going badly. Yeah. And I think one really neat benefit of this tool is that whether you are the

pursuer where you're just like, we got to solve this, we got to solve this, we got to solve this,

or whether you are the withdrawer where you're like, this is pointless, surrender, I'm done,

I'm out of here. Either way, if you find yourself in either of those positions, this tool will work for you.

So I love that it helps both parties.

Yeah.

And it's, I call it the tourniquet for your relationship.

A tourniquet is something you wrap around a like an arm or a leg to stop you from bleeding out.

Yep.

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