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Dear Young Married Couple

A Tool to Rescue Your Toxic Arguments

Dear Young Married Couple

Adam & Karissa King

Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality

5817 Ratings

🗓️ 22 March 2022

⏱️ 26 minutes

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Summary

Have your arguments been going nuclear? Join Adam + Karissa as they share a tool to rescue your toxic arguments, along with some simple, easy steps to apply it! Join us for the next DYMC Monthly Live Date Night where we dig into some of these topics with you LIVE for 90 minutes this month!  Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

Dear young married couple, do you need a tool to rescue your toxic arguments?

0:06.6

We have a tool for you.

0:08.4

We do. We're going to dive into five steps that are part of this tool when things have just

0:13.4

kind of blown up and you're unsure about if it's even productive anymore.

0:18.1

Yeah.

0:18.6

And we're going to talk to you about how to rescue that today.

0:22.2

Right.

0:22.4

And we'll also get into the biology of what's, what's happening in people's bodies.

0:27.6

And, um, and why so many people fall into this cycle.

0:32.0

It's a very, very, very common cycle that we see in counseling.

0:35.5

Mm-hmm.

0:36.0

And, um, this tool is probably one of the most powerful. And one of

0:41.4

the first things that we normally want to give couples that are in this toxic cycle of arguing

0:49.2

and it really going badly. Yeah. And I think one really neat benefit of this tool is that whether you are the

0:55.4

pursuer where you're just like, we got to solve this, we got to solve this, we got to solve this,

1:00.0

or whether you are the withdrawer where you're like, this is pointless, surrender, I'm done,

1:06.0

I'm out of here. Either way, if you find yourself in either of those positions, this tool will work for you.

1:12.2

So I love that it helps both parties.

1:15.2

Yeah.

1:15.7

And it's, I call it the tourniquet for your relationship.

1:19.7

A tourniquet is something you wrap around a like an arm or a leg to stop you from bleeding out.

1:25.8

Yep.

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