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Trying Not to Care

A REALISTIC GUIDE TO CONFIDENCE: how to ACTUALLY be confident

Trying Not to Care

Ashley Corbo

Mental Health Awareness, Relationships, Personal Journals, Society & Culture, Education, Self Help, Relationship Advice, Mental Health, 868329, Breakups, Trying Not To Care, Self-improvement, Navigating Your 20s, Health & Fitness, Self Help Podcast, Ashley Corbo, Friendship Breakups, Self Growth, Friendship Advice, 20 Something, Self Improvement

4.91.8K Ratings

🗓️ 19 May 2025

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Summary

How to ACTUALLY be confident!!! not just fake it!!!! In this episode, I’m giving you all my tips on how to stop doubting yourself and own who you are. From keeping promises to yourself to being okay with people not liking you, here’s a realistic guide to becoming the most solid, self-assured version of you.

✨how to actually be confident✨
1. believe it until you achieve it 
2. keep promises to yourself 
3. be okay with being uncomfortable 
4. know your sh*t
5. become okay with people not liking you 
6. and be your biggest fan 


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hello there. Welcome to her. Welcome back to Tratacare. If you're new here, my name is Ashley,

0:04.9

and I post every single Monday, and I don't normally sound this fucked up. I'm just very sick.

0:11.2

I've been sick since I got back from Orlando. Last week, I was recording and I was just getting

0:16.6

sick. And then after I recorded that night, it hit me me and I have just been down bad since.

0:22.3

I genuinely haven't felt this sick since I had COVID in 2023. So I don't know what's good with me.

0:26.8

I don't know if I have COVID or the flu or what's going on, but I am getting better.

0:31.2

I do feel okay. I just am still congested. But the show must go on. I hope you and I can get through this episode with me sounding the way that I do.

0:40.7

Maybe I don't sound as bad as I think I do, but I feel like I sound pretty bad.

0:45.6

But anyways, today's episode, I want to give you a realistic guide to being confident

0:50.3

because so many people, including myself, will tell you that you don't have to actually

0:55.0

be confident. You just have to fake it until you make it, just pretend that you are, because no one

0:58.8

besides you is going to know if you're actually confident. And I think that's a really good first

1:03.1

step. I think if you want to be confident, the first step is to pretend like you are confident.

1:07.1

But eventually you don't want to just fake it. You want to actually be it. You don't want to be second guessing yourself.

1:11.9

You don't want to be struggling with whether you like yourself or not.

1:15.1

You don't want to be questioning your value.

1:16.6

You just want to be solid in who you are and you want to like who you are.

1:20.4

Because although it's great that you tricked everyone else into thinking that you're this

1:23.7

confident person who has their shit together. If you're not actually that person

1:28.3

and you aren't confident, you're going to still be struggling with self-doubt. You're going to be

1:33.1

seeking approval from others. You're going to be struggling with comparison and you're going to

1:36.9

be struggling with imposter syndrome. I'm not going to lie. Fake confidence has gotten me pretty

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