A Playbook for Modern Dating

The Art of Manliness

Education, Society & Culture, Philosophy

4.7 • 14.9K Ratings

🗓️ 14 February 2022

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

Dating is a relatively recent phenomenon in human history. Given that, it shouldn't come as a surprise that many people aren't sure of the best way to go about it, especially since the rise of modern technology and dating apps has made an already murky landscape even more confusing.

If you feel like you could use some expert, research-backed guidance to navigating this world, enter today's guest, Logan Ury. Logan is a behavioral scientist turned dating coach, the Director of Relationship Science for the Hinge dating app, and the author of How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love. Today on the show, Logan explains the three dating tendencies and the three types of attachment styles that can influence, and potentially sabotage, your ability to get into a healthy relationship. She shares the easiest thing you can do to be more successful in making connections on the dating apps, and the criteria to use for figuring out how to best meet people in person. Logan then gets into how to design a good first date, and what to tell the other person if the date doesn't go well, rather than ghosting them. She also makes the case for why you shouldn't be over reliant on feeling the proverbial spark when deciding whether to see someone again. We end our conversation with tips on breaking up with someone you've been dating for awhile.

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0:00.0	Brat McKay here and welcome to another edition of the Art of Manliness Podcast.
0:11.1	Dating is a relatively recent phenomenon in human history.
0:14.3	Given that, it shouldn't come as a surprise that many people aren't sure of the best way
0:17.9	to go about it, especially since the rise of modern technology in dating apps has made
0:21.6	an already murky landscape even more confusing.
0:24.3	If you feel like you can use some expert research back guidance navigating this world, enter
0:28.5	today's guest, Logan Uri.
0:30.6	Logan's behavioral scientist turned dating coach, the director of relationship science
0:33.8	for the hinge dating app, and the author of How to Not Die Alone.
0:36.9	The surprising science will help you find love.
0:39.2	Stay on the show, Logan explains the three dating tendencies and the three types of attachment
0:43.4	styles that can influence and potentially sabotage your ability to get into healthy relationships.
0:48.0	Logan then gets into how to design a good first date and would tell the other person
0:51.1	if the date doesn't go well rather than ghosting them.
0:53.7	She also makes the case for why you shouldn't be over-relined on feeling the proverbial
0:56.8	spark when deciding whether to see someone again.
0:59.3	We enter conversation with tips on breaking up with someone you've been dating for a while.
1:02.7	Out of the shows over, check out our show notes at aawim.iaslashdating.
1:05.8	All right, Logan Uri, welcome to the show.
1:22.8	Thank you so much for having me.
1:24.6	You got a book called How to Not Die Alone, The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find
1:29.6	Love.
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