Okay, so, it's a lot happening today on the set because I have my sister on the show with me,

and she's a part of all this. This is her space that she works into the church.

So she made everybody miss up just a lot of unproductivity happening right now,

or lack of productivity, whatever but I do want to

ask this question because in this book talking about how we love that it's really about the overarching

call of the believer to love God with everything heart so mind and strength and love your neighbor

as yourself and I don't think that we often talk about what that looks like in the

context of family. Because family, you kind of feel like you don't have any options. It's just

like, they're yours. Thanks, thanks, God. And now you just move on. Whether you want to want

not. Right. But that love does evolve. I don't know that it's less.

Like you always have a sense of fundamental, like, care, foundational care for your family.

They're sick or something like that.

But I think there's facets of that evolve.

And I was thinking about even our relationship, especially now older. I'm 50, you're five years older than that,

which is 40, 45, 50 minus 5, that's right, I knew that, I knew that, borrow, and then

just up your, right, those. So now at this age, I feel like we're better friends than we ever were.

And that has continued to evolve.

I think I always felt like a sense of responsibility when it came to you,

which probably out on your nerves.

This is just the oldest job thing, you know, like telling you what to do.

And you were like, we're done it telling what to do. So that was there,

protective love, that kind of stuff. But the friendship part, I think, kind of started maybe

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