**Pre-order my new book Cleaning up Your Mental Mess here & get access to exclusive pre-order bonuses like a workbook, bonus chapters and more: https://www.cleaningupyourmentalmess.com/ Sign up to join my free text program and receive mental health care tips. Just text DRLEAF to 1 (833) 285 3747 Register for my FREE NeuroCycle workshop (Feb 27th!): https://neurocycle.eventbrite.com SHOW DESCRIPTION: In this podcast I talk about how you can use mind management and the Neurocycle method to deal with a relationship crisis in the moment, and how to use self-regulation to heal your relationship over the long-term. Plus, I share some tips on how to channel ugly and intense emotions in the right direction.  Read the show blog here: https://drleaf.com/blogs/news/a-neurocycle-for-healing-improving-relationships-how-to-channel-intense-ugly-emotions-in-the-right-direction OFFERS FROM OUR SPONSORS: BiOptimizers’s Leaky Gut Guardian, which is a great way to heal your gut and improve your immune health! Use code DRLEAF10 for up to 40% off your order and free shipping on select packages at www.bioptimizers.com/drleaf. Ritual, my favorite multivitamins for men, women and children—simple, clean, and backed by science! To get 10% off your first three months of Ritual multivitamins see: ritual/drleaf. PODCAST HIGHLIGHTS: 4:08 How to deal with a relationship crisis 4:40 How the COVID-19 pandemic has impacted relationships 7:20 Why you can’t hide what you are going through from your partner 11:45 How your significant other changes your brain 16:00, 25:10 Rules for communicating & arguing better 23:50 How assumptions can lead to a relationship crisis 38:58 Why you need to discuss solutions & not just problems with your partner 45:50 How to use the Neurocycle to deal with a relationship crisis in the moment & to heal a relationship over the long-term ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: -Visit my website at https://drleaf.com for more free resources Follow me on social media for daily mental health tips & strategies: -Instagram: @drcarolineleaf: https://www.instagram.com/drcarolineleaf/- -Facebook: Dr. Caroline Leaf: https://www.facebook.com/drleaf -Twitter: @drcarolineleaf: https://twitter.com/DrCarolineLeaf -Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/drcarolineleaf If you enjoyed this episode please leave a 5 review on iTunes, Google Play, or wherever you are listening! And don't forget to subscribe and share this podcast with friends and family! I love seeing your posts on social media! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.