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10% Happier with Dan Harris

A Masterclass in Handling Yourself When Things Suck | Tsoknyi Rinpoche and Daniel Goleman

10% Happier with Dan Harris

10% Media, LLC

Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.612.9K Ratings

🗓️ 16 November 2022

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Summary

This episode is for anyone who has ever had a tough or tricky moment. In other words, everyone who is currently drawing breath on planet earth right now.


Today's guests are powerhouse duo Tsoknyi Rinpoche and Daniel Goleman.

Tsoknyi Rinpoche is one of the greatest living Tibetan masters who has a whole toolbox of techniques for dealing with difficult moments, habitual patterns, and common meditation obstacles. He'll be in conversation with Daniel Goleman, a trained scientist and science writer best known for his landmark book, Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ. Together, they have just written a book called Why We Meditate: The Science and Practice of Clarity and Compassion


This is the fourth and final installment of our series called, The Art and Science of Keeping Your Sh*t Together. In each episode we bring together a meditative adept or Buddhist scholar and a respected scientist. The idea is to give you the best of both worlds to arm you with both modern and ancient tools for regulating your emotions.


In this episode we talk about:

  • The single word that Rinpoche believes captures the most challenging aspect of modern life
  • Two of the biggest obstacles for meditators
  • What Rinpoche calls the "drop it" practice
  • Rinpoche's term, "beautiful monsters"
  • The four steps of the "handshake" practice, which is meant for meeting difficult emotions and being OK with them
  • Why reasoning with your feelings doesn't work
  • How to experience a fundamental OK-ness independent of external conditions
  • A personal story from Rinpoche about being with one of his own difficult habits
  • What Rinpoche calls the "three speed limits"
  • And, "belly breathing"



Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/tsoknyi-rinpoche-daniel-goleman-523

Transcript

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0:00.0

This is the 10% happier podcast.

0:06.0

Dan Harris.

0:07.9

Hey, gang, this is, I think, going to be an incredibly useful episode for anybody

0:15.4

who's ever had tough or tricky moments in their lives.

0:19.5

In other words, it's going to be useful for anybody currently drawing breath on planet

0:22.8

Earth right now.

0:24.0

We've got a powerhouse duo on the show.

0:26.2

Dani Rinpoche is one of the greatest living Tibetan masters who has a whole toolbox of techniques

0:31.4

for dealing with difficult moments, habitual patterns and common meditation obstacles.

0:36.2

He will be in conversation with Danny Goldman or Daniel Goldman, as he's often professionally

0:40.8

known, his friends call him Danny.

0:43.4

He is a trained scientist and science writer, perhaps best known for his landmark book,

0:47.8

Emotional Intelligence.

0:49.4

Together, Tsokny Rinpoche and Danny Goldman have just produced a book called Why We Metate,

0:55.4

which will be out in a few weeks and is currently available for pre-order.

0:59.6

This is the fourth and final installment of our series called The Art and Science of Keeping

1:03.4

Your Shit Together.

1:04.7

In each episode, we bring together a meditative adept or Buddhist scholar and a respected

1:09.9

scientist.

1:10.9

The idea is to give you the best of both worlds to arm you with both modern and ancient tools

1:15.9

for regulating your emotions.

1:18.4

In this conversation, we talked about the single word that Tsokny Rinpoche believes, captures

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