All right, team, welcome back to the man talk show.

Connor Beaton here.

Today we're going to be talking about how to lead through conflict in your relationship.

Now, this is specifically a guide for men.

And if you are interested, I also have a free guide for you that is in the

description below called How to Lead in Relationship, Man's Guide to Leading in a Relationship. So

check that out. You can click on that as a free resource for you. And tons of guys have found

that to be very valuable. So let's dive in. The first thing that I want to say,

I've said this time and time again, I'll say it in case you are new, because I know that 74%

of you are not subscribed, so maybe get on that, whether you're on Spotify or YouTube. But I'll

say this again and again. Choose a woman that you are willing to do conflict with. Choose a partner, whether you're

listening to this as a man or a woman, choose a person that you are wanting or willing to do

conflict with. I dated too many women that I didn't trust. And when conflict happened,

I just kind of checked out because I was like,

I don't trust you. I don't trust that you're interested. You have my best interest, the relationship's best

interest in mind. I also dated women that I didn't respect. And so when conflict happened, I would just

disengage or, you know, I wouldn't act in a way that was how I wanted to be aligned with my own values or ethics.

And then I also dated women that I didn't want to stand up to because I didn't want to hurt

them and I didn't want to cause them any pain. And all of these caused all kinds of issues.

And so ideally, you know, leading yourself in a relationship and being able to lead in conflict in any

capacity, which I'm going to share four or five steps here that you can take with you that I have

seen to work really, really well for every single man. But ideally, you are with somebody

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