A guide to being brave in relationships

TED Radio Hour

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🗓️ 22 August 2025

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

From sustaining a marriage to making new friends, forming connections requires courage. This hour, TED speakers guide us through being brave during the most difficult moments in relationships. Guests include writer and podcaster Kelly Corrigan, journalist Allison Gilbert and clinical psychologists Julie and John Gottman.

Original broadcast date: November 1, 2024

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0:00.0	This is the TED Radio Hour.
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0:39.9	Writer Kelly Corrigan's daughters are grown now, but back when they were tweens, she noticed something.
0:47.4	If they came home from school really mad or upset and she tried to help them, they would just turn off.
0:55.3	Like, their emotion would change, and they would go from something raw to something kind of tired and dismissive, and then they would wander away.
1:04.5	And I would think, what just happened?
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