There's roughly 74 million fathers in America today and every single one of them at some point is going to experience these three phases you go through with your kids

That applies also to business and in life

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What are the three phases first phase? It's a beautiful phase. It's when your kids totally idolize their dads

Oh my god my dad is so awesome

We play catch together. We go out and have a good time together

My dad is amazing and then all of a sudden kid gets a little bit older than dad does things wrong

That doesn't have a clue what he's doing

Then you go through the demonized phase my dad is horrible

He's so controlling. He doesn't care about me. He doesn't do this. He doesn't do that

And then you may go through a phase of a couple of years maybe five ten years

Sometimes the last over ten years

We just totally demonize your dad your dad can't do anything right and then one day you wake up

Typically it happens when you become a father and then you start humanizing your father and you say man

He's kind of right. Shit, you know things he said. That was kind of right. This was right

All this other stuff that takes place again

You may be watching this as a kid saying I'm into phase right now, but you don't understand my dad is different

He's horrible. He's this. He's that fine. No problem

By the way, this is not a fatherless home statistic. I'm giving you

Set those fathers aside that are not there their apps and they're not around you can say whatever you want there

I'm not talking about that. I'm talking about somebody that is active is there is tough on you

Challenges you kicks your butt pushes you all this stuff where you have many opportunities to have a demonizing type of an energy towards your father

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