Hey, everyone, welcome to From the Kitchen Table.

I'm your host, along with my co-host for the podcast, but also my partner in life and my wife, Rachel Campos Tuffy.

Thank you, Sean.

You know what else I am?

The mother of the bride.

And you are the father of the bride.

And we have a wedding, believe it or not, in, what is it,

three days from now? Is it three day countdown, I think? And boy, it has been an experience,

you know, to see your daughter get married is one of the proudest, happiest moments.

But it involves, you know, some stress as well. We're going to talk about that. But also,

more importantly, we're going to invite our daughter and our future son-in-law to join us on the podcast to talk about getting married, what it's like, why they decide to do it so young because they're only 22.

So with no further ado, let's welcome Evita, our daughter, Vita Duffy, and Michael Alfonso are soon to be son-in-law. Welcome, you guys, and congratulations. Welcome to the kitchen table. Okay, so let me ask you first. I don't know the answer to this. So, Evita, what's your name going to be? Is it going to be Evita Duffy Alfonso? Evita Alfonso. What is the name going to be? Because I, why are you trying to start a fight before they even get married? They don't know the answer to that. We haven't, we haven't made a final call yet because I'm not somebody who likes to buck tradition a lot. Michael definitely wants me to take his last name. But I also have a byline with a lot of Duffy,

Avita Duffy. So that's something that I have to have to think about. Well, I'll just say that when

me and your mom got married, I wanted her to be Rachel Duffy. And she was like, no, I want to be

Rachel Campos Duffy. And there was a lot of tension and stress around that because for you,

not me.

Right.

Well, exactly.

And I imagine Michael feels the same stress because I wanted you to take my last name.

But I get, she was like, but I'm Campos.

I've been Campos forever.

I have been Campos forever.

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