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All right. Today's question comes from Carl and Georgia. He says, I'm very disappointed with what you advise regarding combining all funds together when married.

What about when you've been married less than two years and the couple gets married later in life? My wife showed me your video and says she wants

her name added to everything I have. Do you think I'm supposed to put her name on everything

I had before marriage and then she gets

half of that if we divorce?

This caused a major problem and she has moved out.

No man on earth would give everything he had before marriage in his wife's name.

Please explain yourself.

I love this question so much from Carl. Listen, Carl, I'm going to have to

take a quick breather because Carl, Carl, it's making me mad. I just love that Carl, in the question,

blaming us for the dissolution of his marriage, is very telling about how Carl acts in his normal everyday life.

Carl, I'm going to tell you, just because something is your second marriage doesn't mean it should be no, have no, you know,

it's a marriage is still built on the same things. A good marriage is still built on the same things.

It's still trust, right? There's still those levels that need to be there. So clearly, even in your second marriage, you're like there's something about this woman that I don't feel like I can trust her because you're not willing to share your finances with her. You're not willing to put her name on your assets. And you're already anticipating a divorce because you're saying, well, what will happen when we divorce?

And I don't know about you, but I don't feel warm and cushy going into a relationship like that.

Now, don't get me wrong, there are some things that we can plan for.

Let's say he had millions and millions of dollars, second marriage, he's got children, and

she's got, you know, the person he's marrying has nothing there

there and some caveats in there and some nuance that can be discussed but it kind of just sounds like

you guys are just kind of like two two folks like two regular folks like me or george and it sounds

like carl was already on thin ice and then she saw this video and went hey here's what these ramsie

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