Welcome to Daren Daily On Demand, your most trusted resource to help you become better

every day.

Here's your success mentor, Daren Hardy.

Good morning and welcome back.

Are you ready for some tough love this morning?

Alrighty then, here goes.

I want you to stop trying to find yourself.

It's making you nuts and you don't find yourself in the first place.

You create yourself.

Here is bad teaching out there that suggests as we go through life, the more we seek, the

more we will find ourselves.

We aren't finding anything.

We aren't lost.

Then all of a sudden, we happen upon some sane, all-knowing, rational-wise grounded,

non-crazy, super-confident person buried inside yourself.

Oh man.

Instead, you have to create yourself into a knowledgeable, rational, grounded, sane, and confident

person.

Look, you came into this experience basically blank.

Sure, some genetic predispositions, but essentially just pile of clay or photoplasms to be more

specific.

To be molded, it's up to you to make something of it.

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