Hey, lovelies, love all the way from South Africa.

I'm 24 years old and been dating one of my colleagues.

I have just found out that I am two months pregnant.

Before I found out about my pregnancy, I went through his phone

and saw that he was texting one of his exes.

And they were planning on going out for his birthday.

So after I found out this information, I broke things off with him.

Only to then find out I was pregnant the next day.

Once I found out, I texted him and he immediately suggested that I should, trigger

warning, terminate it.

He then started me, he then started asking me for space.

I was actually begging this guy to be there for me but he was telling me that it was getting tiring for him and he needed a break

i decided to go through with determination and during the week of this happening he started

dating another girl he proceeded to change his profile picture to her picture

pretending like we were not dating or acting like I wasn't pregnant.

There hasn't been a time where I have felt deeply disappointed in men until now.

I am currently seeking a therapist.

I'm currently seeing a therapist.

How am I able to trust men again after this whole ordeal?

I hear it, sis. Wow. And she still works there. Ah, well, I'm guessing so. Yeah, he can't lie. That would battle me. That would be, that's

absolutely no way we're talking about ending a child's life. And you're there updating your

WhatsApp profile to her. Another you imagine? Another random babe that's so impossible. Can you imagine? That's so impossible. That would actually finish me. Yeah. That would finish me. That would be my loss. That would be my loss. That would finish me. I'm happy that she's in therapy. Yeah. That's a good move because some people were just well on that situation and just put themselves.

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