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We Met At Acme

A Complete And Total Guide To All Dating Rules

We Met At Acme

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Education, Society & Culture, Relationships, Self-improvement

4.22.4K Ratings

🗓️ 20 March 2022

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

In this month’s solo episode, I do a refresher on the rules for dating. I also discuss Pam and Tommy, share stories of people who had success following the rules, talk about why I went off birth control and how it has been, how I got started with all of this dating stuff, what my husband and I decided to do with finances for our marriage, if I had any help when I got sober, and so much more!

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Produced by Dear Media.

Transcript

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0:00.0

The following podcast is a deer media production.

0:06.5

Hey guys, welcome back to We Metodacme. I'm so excited to be back doing a full solo episode.

0:12.8

It feels like it's hard to schedule these in because we have so many exciting guests coming up,

0:16.9

but I am doing my best to do one of these a month, so here I am committing to what I said I would do.

0:24.4

A rare occurrence.

0:26.7

I have a list of things that I want to go over. Mostly we're going to do a big refresher of the rules

0:32.4

and read some of your success stories of the rules, but before we do that, I just am going to get in

0:39.4

some thoughts on Pam and Tommy, the show. Skip ahead if you haven't seen it, but also it happened in

0:45.9

real life, so you don't really have to skip ahead. I've been watching the Pam and Tommy show, or I think

0:53.0

maybe we finished it actually last night with Steven and Pamela Anderson is played by Lily James,

0:59.8

who is absolutely stunning and Tommy Lee is played by Sebastian Stan, who's great, but I don't

1:07.8

think he looks like Tommy Lee. I think however, Lily James looks almost identical to her and is so,

1:15.6

so, so, so, so, so good in this role. I was thinking though I'm watching it.

1:20.5

You know, Pam is a sweet in real life, you know, the sweet girl and she meets Tommy Lee, who's like

1:28.1

this rocker and whatever, and he's like kind of a dick, which is why his safe, I guess got broken

1:36.8

into in the first place and they found their sex tape. And it's interesting because I see Pamela

1:43.4

like with him at least, you know, in the show, obviously I don't know what their relationship was

1:47.2

like in real life. And I'm like, I would not maybe young me, right? But me today would never be

1:54.5

attracted to someone who was like rude to people that worked for them or rude to other women or

2:00.1

things like that. But maybe when I was younger, I dated guys who I kind of almost like wanted to

2:06.5

be rude to other women because I was like, I only want them to be nice to me. And looking back,

2:12.1

that is so insanely toxic. Like, why would I want to be with someone who's rude to anyone?

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