A Christian Parent's Guide to Youth Sports | Brian Smith and Ed Usyznski | Episode 404
The Speakeasy
The Girl Named Blake
4.8 • 3.4K Ratings
🗓️ 25 February 2026
⏱️ 66 minutes
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Summary
Today we're diving into the wide world of youth sports, and fair warning: this one might give you permission, step on your toes… or both.
Ed and Brian are former athletes, longtime sports ministry leaders, and dads currently navigating youth sports with their own kids. They're also the authors of Away Game: A Christian Parent's Guide to Navigating Youth Sports, and this conversation is honest, clarifying, and deeply needed.
We talk about what they call the "youth sports industrial complex," how we went from backyard games and rec leagues to a $40+ billion industry built on travel teams, specialization, year-round pressure, and future anxiety. How did we get here? What changed from when we were kids? And most importantly, do we have to ride this train?
In this episode we unpack:
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The cultural shifts that reshaped youth sports
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Why sports don't automatically build character
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How pride, shame, and self-centeredness quietly grow unchecked
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The difference between sports formation and spiritual formation
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Why parents — not coaches — are the primary disciplers
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How to respond to wins and losses in a gospel-shaped way
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Creating boundaries within the system (even if you stay in it)
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The power of gentleness, security, and apology
Spoiler: This isn't about pulling your kids out of sports. It's about recognizing that sports culture will disciple your child if you don't, and learning how to counterform that culture with intentional, Jesus-centered parenting.
Whether you're all-in on travel ball or wondering if you should opt out altogether, this episode will help you slow down, breathe, and ask better questions.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Back to the Speakeasy podcast. Today we are talking about the wide world of youth sports. And I'm |
| 0:06.3 | to be honest, we're either going to give you a lot of permission or we're going to step on your toes |
| 0:11.2 | or possibly both. Today, I am joined by two former athletes themselves, as well as dads that are |
| 0:19.1 | navigating, having children that are athletes, coaching them. |
| 0:22.9 | Ed and Brian are the authors of Away Game, a Christian parent's guide to navigating |
| 0:28.6 | youth sports. |
| 0:30.1 | And I devoured this book. |
| 0:32.5 | And I don't even actually technically have a kid in youth sports. |
| 0:35.9 | You're going to find out more about that. |
| 0:37.4 | As we get into the episode, I shared a lot of our story and our experience. technically have a kid in youth sports. You're going to find out more about that. |
| 0:43.4 | As we get into the episode, I shared a lot of our story and our experiences with this, |
| 0:47.2 | what they call the youth sports industrial complex. But we got into like, how did we get here? |
| 0:49.6 | How much has changed since we were kids playing sports? |
| 0:53.5 | And what is the good? is the negative but most importantly |
| 0:58.3 | how can we navigate having kids that play sports in a way that pushes them towards the gospel |
| 1:05.6 | that navigates instead of them becoming more like the world, them becoming more like Jesus. |
| 1:12.7 | And spoiler alert, that really lands in our laps as the parents. |
| 1:17.8 | And so this is a great conversation. |
| 1:19.5 | Like I said, might step on your toes a little bit. |
| 1:22.2 | But yeah, that's why you come here, isn't it? |
| 1:31.4 | I'm sorry. why you come here, isn't it? All right, you guys, welcome to the speak easy. |
| 1:34.5 | Thanks for having us, Blake. |
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