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A Buddhist Recipe for Handling Turmoil | Kaira Jewel Lingo

10% Happier with Dan Harris

10% Media, LLC

Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.612.9K Ratings

🗓️ 28 August 2024

⏱️ 51 minutes

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We all know that change is inevitable and impermanence is non-negotiable. But somehow it can feel surprising, maybe even wrong, when we personally hit turbulence. The Buddha had a lot to say about this, and so does our guest. 


Kaira Jewel Lingo is a Dharma teacher who has a lifelong interest in blending spirituality and meditation with social justice. Having grown up in an ecumenical Christian community where families practiced a new kind of monasticism and worked with the poor, at the age of twenty-five she entered a Buddhist monastery in the Plum Village tradition and spent fifteen years living as a nun under the guidance of Zen Master Thich Nhat Hanh. She received Lamp Transmission from Thich Nhat Hanh and became a Zen teacher in 2007, and is also a teacher in the Vipassana Insight lineage through Spirit Rock Meditation Center. Today she sees her work as a continuation of the Engaged Buddhism developed by Thich Nhat Hanh as well as the work of her parents, inspired by their stories and her dad's work with Martin Luther King Jr. on desegregating the South. 


In addition to writing We Were Made for These Times: Skilfully Moving through Change, Loss and Disruption, she is also the editor of Thich Nhat Hanh's Planting Seeds: Practicing Mindfulness with Children. Now based in New York, she teaches and leads retreats internationally, provides spiritual mentoring, and interweaves art, play, nature, racial and earth justice, and embodied mindfulness practice in her teaching. She especially feels called to share the Dharma with Black, Indigenous, and People of Color, as well as activists, educators, youth, artists, and families. Her newest book, co-written with Marisela B. Gomez and Valerie Brown, is Healing Our Way Home: Black Buddhist Teachings on Ancestors, Joy, and Liberation.


In this episode we talk about:

  • waking up to what's happening right now
  • trusting the unknown (easier said than done) 
  • A Buddhist list called the five remembrances 
  • how gratitude helps us in times of disruption
  • And accepting what is (and why this is different from resignation or passivity)


Please note: There are brief mentions of domestic violence, abuse, the suffering of refugees, and war in this episode.


Related Episodes:

3 Buddhist Strategies for When the News is Overwhelming | Kaira Jewel Lingo

How to Keep Your Relationships On the Rails | Kaira Jewel Lingo


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0:00.0

This is the 10% Happier Podcast. I'm Dan Harris.

0:19.4

Hey, hey, today it is a Buddhist recipe for handling turmoil.

0:24.6

We all know change is inevitable, impermanence is non-negotiable, but somehow it can feel surprising, maybe even wrong, when we personally hit some turbulence.

0:35.0

The Buddha had a lot to say about this, and so does our guest today.

0:38.6

Kyra Jewel Lingo is the author of We Were Made for These Times, Ten Lessons on Moving Through Change,

0:43.8

Loss, and Disruption. This is a rebroadcast of an interview we did with her in 2021 about that

0:49.3

book. In this conversation, we talk about those 10 strategies for handling change that she mentions

0:54.6

in her subtitle for the book, including waking up to what's happening right now, trusting

0:59.1

the unknown, which is easier said than done, a Buddhist list called the five remembrances,

1:05.1

how gratitude can help in times of disruption, which sounds counterintuitive, and accepting

1:10.8

what is and why this is different, and accepting what is and why this is

1:12.2

different, and this is important, why this is different from resignation. We start, though,

1:17.0

with a personal story about an earthquake in Kyra Jules' own life. She spent 15 years as a Buddhist

1:22.7

nun and then decided to leave, which, as you will hear, caused no small amount of disruption for her.

1:29.6

So we'll get started with Kyra Jule right after this.

1:32.5

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