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Dakota Spotlight: True Crime & Cold Case Investigations

A Better Search for Barbara (20): Lost Suicide Note – Investigating the Barbara Cotton Cold Case

Dakota Spotlight: True Crime & Cold Case Investigations

James Wolner

Documentary, Society & Culture, True Crime

4.8903 Ratings

🗓️ 22 January 2022

⏱️ 45 minutes

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Summary

Barbara Louise Cotton’s disappearance in 1981 remains one of North Dakota’s most troubling cold cases. Episode 20, Lost Suicide Note, brings forward two powerful perspectives: Sandee Evanson, Barbara’s childhood friend, reflects on her enduring search for answers, while Stacey Werder’s sister in California shares insight into his death and the note tied to his suicide. A Better Search for Barbara weaves together community memory, investigative journalism, and real crime investigations into an unsolved murder still seeking resolution. Music by Wowza in Kalamazoo: https://wowzainkalamazoo.bandcamp.com/ Check out the full catalog and everything Dakota Spotlight: https://dakotaspotlight.com/ Get all episodes early, ad-free, and more. Subscribe to Spotlight PLUS: https://dakotaspotlight.com/spotlight-plus/ Sign up for the Dakota Spotlight newsletter: https://dakotaspotlight.com/newsletter/ Email: dakotaspotlight@gmail.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/groups/dakotaspotlight X/Twitter: @dakotaspotlight Instagram: @dakotaspotlight TikTok: @dakotaspotlight Bluesky: @dakotaspotlight.bsky.social YouTube: @dakotaspotlightpodcast4800 Proudly produced by Six Horse Media: info@sixhorsemedia.com Advertise your podcast or brand in Dakota Spotlight episodes: info@sixhorsemedia.com All content in this podcast, including audio, interviews, and soundscapes, is the property of Six Horse Media. Any unauthorized use, reproduction, or rebroadcast of this material without the express written consent of Six Horse Media is strictly prohibited. For permissions or inquiries, please contact info@sixhorsemedia.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

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0:03.8

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0:32.7

You're listening to Dakota Spotlight, a production of Forum Communications.

0:36.9

My name is James Wulner, and this is episode 20 of a production of forum communications. My name is James

0:37.6

Walner, and this is episode 20 of a better search for Barbara. Hi. I'm sorry. Nice to meet you.

0:45.5

Nice to meet you. I feel like I know you kind of. And he snooping in mom's room and found a letter and said that it was a suicide letter.

0:57.0

He did. He remembers it being a suicide.

0:59.0

Yeah. And he said he brought it up to grandma and she would not talk about it.

1:04.0

This is the original report that came in on 412, 1981, at 1556 hours, okay?

1:22.7

And this is what it says.

1:24.4

Call from Louise Cotton reporting that her daughter Barbara has not come home since yesterday.

1:30.2

She is a 15-year-old, list her date of birth, brown hair and eyes, small build, wearing a tan short jacket and blue jeans.

1:38.7

Was last seen at a friend's house at about 10 p.m. last night. Was with a guy by the name of Stacey earlier in the evening.

1:46.3

Stacey, first name, used to wash dishes at cakes and cones.

1:53.7

Some of the things that he liked to do could kill you.

2:01.6

Because how would nobody know about this point?

2:04.6

He enjoyed choking and suffocating me and my sister.

2:09.6

She was, I don't know, one of the kindest people I knew.

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