Hello lovely humans. I'm wildly and I am thankful for all of you out there listening to sex stories.

A podcast where we practice listening to and learning from each other's very personal

details in an effort to improve sex lives everywhere. Our guest today is a 27-year-old

bicurious cis female in a monogamous relationship with a dude who's a couple

decades older. She works in health care, she's vanilla-ish, open to ties and blindfolds from the Midwest.

Welcome, Chavell.

Hi Wio. the Midwest, welcome Chavell. Hi, Waio.

Hi, can you start out by raiding yourself on the sexual shameometer with one being like,

oh, I don't have any shame and 10 being like super shame I can't handle things

So I'd say I'm like a six but once I'm having sex, I think it drops down a little bit, maybe like a three.

Okay. The inaditions get lowered a little bit.

I love that answer.

Okay. Great.

And can you just give us a couple sentence overview of what your sex life is like right now?

So I'm really busy. I work like 10 or 11 hour shifts, most and when I get home I cook I eat I fall asleep on the

couch and then my boyfriend and I kind of go to bed and it's a struggle most days to even have the energy to have sex because I kind of want it to be if I'm going to have sex I'm going to do it right. You know, I'm not going to be like, yeah, let's just half ask this today.

But, you know, probably once a week, we try to set aside time.

So it's a little scheduled, but we make an attempt.

I think it better to schedule and satisfy

than to just be getting scraps all the time, personally.

That's my personal philosophy.

So please, if you would would take us back in time to your early

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