Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast, the show where you hear from amazing and inspiring

wives sharing their struggles, triumphs, and advice for this journey called marriage.

Here's your host, Bella Rose.

Thanks so much for joining.

This is Bella Rose, and I'm grateful that you're here on the podcast with me.

If you have gone through anything in your marriage that any way resembles a porn addiction, whether it's adultery, whether it was your husband having wandering eyes,

whether it's yourself just feeling kind of insecure in a, you know, a culture that

pretends like perfect bodies is the most important thing that we should all aspire to. I think today's conversation is going

to be really important because we're talking about sharing the pain. And it's painful to find out

about a sex addition of our spouse. It's so painful. And it feels incredibly isolating. It feels like we're the only

ones going through it. And because there's all this shame around it, especially in Christianity,

you know, it feels like we have to retreat from our Christian friends, our Christian circles,

our people at church, they must not understand what I'm going through.

And I want to just say, the enemy wants you to feel isolated.

He wants you to feel alone.

He wants you to feel like this is a secret you can't share with anybody.

But that's a lie.

Because God uses people to help us to get free from the strongholds in our minds.

And so today I have a phenomenal conversation with Jen Ferguson. She was actually on the

podcast before, but she's got an amazing story. She has been there. She has experienced the betrayal and the heartache from her husband's

porn addiction. And she talks about how she shared, how she talked about it, how she got healing

through prayer, through conversations with others, through counseling. Counseling, just an FYI, I think,

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