99. Connecting with Neighbors Is Easier Than You Think (with Shannan Martin)
The Simplified Podcast with Emily Ley
Emily Ley
4.9 • 1.7K Ratings
🗓️ 19 January 2023
⏱️ 40 minutes
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Summary
We all want to make real, lasting connections with people. So why not start with your very own neighbors? It can feel a little intimidating to reach out to someone you don’t know, maybe even a little awkward. It did for writer Shannan Martin too. But despite her status as a card-carrying introvert, Shannan has found that connecting with the community around her in small, low-stakes ways has given her more joy than just sticking to a polite wave. Emily and Shannan talk about some easy ways you can get to know your neighbors or loose acquaintances a little more (Guess what? You don’t have to feed them dinner!). Because at the end of the day, once you push past your feelings of discomfort, you’ll discover that the gift of connection is definitely worth it.
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| 0:00.0 | Hi friends, I'm Emily Lay and you're listening to the Simplified Podcast. |
| 0:15.0 | If you're looking for a quiet place where you can start to simplify your life and organize |
| 0:19.0 | your home, this is it. |
| 0:21.0 | Every week I invite you to join me to explore practical ways to organize and automate the |
| 0:25.0 | complicated parts of life so you can focus on what truly matters most. |
| 0:31.0 | Today we're talking about how to create real and lasting connections with the people in |
| 0:34.8 | our communities and it's simplified we believe every good relationship begins with friendship. |
| 0:40.3 | That's why we created the friendship workbook just for you. |
| 0:43.6 | Through the pages of this workbook we'll help you think of practical ways to care for friends |
| 0:47.9 | and loved ones so you can experience a life filled with beautiful, flourishing relationships. |
| 0:53.2 | That's definitely what I want for my life this year. |
| 0:55.9 | You can find your friendship workbook and browse the rest of our workbook collection over at |
| 1:00.0 | EmilyLay.com. One of the things I hear from you guys a lot is about how much you want to build |
| 1:06.6 | real lasting connections with people. You want to have the confidence to invite over the neighbor |
| 1:11.3 | you haven't really talked to since you moved in 12 years ago and now it kind of feels too |
| 1:15.3 | light to rock the boat when you kind of have your way from the porch neighborly rhythms going |
| 1:20.2 | and you just don't want to bug them. But you know what? I bet they feel the same way about you. |
| 1:24.9 | They probably don't want to bug you too and so there you sit in houses side by side not wanting |
| 1:29.8 | to bug the other but each of you wondering what it would be like to have the kind of neighbor |
| 1:33.8 | you could have over to watch the Super Bowl or plan a summer block party with or maybe you're not |
| 1:38.8 | wondering about a next door neighbor. Maybe it's a person at your church you haven't seen before |
| 1:43.3 | and you kind of want to talk to them after the service maybe even grab a bite to eat afterward |
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