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The Trent Shelton Podcast

96. COMPARISON DESTROYS YOU

The Trent Shelton Podcast

Trent Shelton

Mental Health, Education, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

4.95.9K Ratings

🗓️ 26 November 2024

⏱️ 70 minutes

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Summary

HEY REHABBERS: Comparisonitis is the thief of joy, and it’s keeping so many of us stuck, frustrated, and feeling less-than. In this episode, we’re digging deep into the hidden ways comparison holds you back and giving you five powerful, uncommon truths to break free. This isn’t just about stopping the habit of comparing yourself to others—it’s about reclaiming your peace, building confidence, and defining success on your terms. If you’ve ever felt like you’re behind in life, like everyone else has it figured out while you’re still struggling, this episode is for you. It’s time to honor your path, trust your timing, and let go of the weight of comparison. Let’s make 2025 the year you step fully into your power. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: 1️⃣ Stop Competing With Their Starting Line Why comparing your progress to someone else’s circumstances is a race you’ll never win. The truth about why your path might be harder—and how that’s connected to your purpose. 2️⃣ Ask Yourself: What Am I Really Jealous Of? How envy reveals the parts of yourself you’re neglecting and how to turn that into growth instead of self-doubt. The difference between wanting what they have and wanting what it means. 3️⃣ Take Inventory of Your Inputs How social media and daily habits shape your confidence and fuel comparison. The power of curating what you consume to build clarity and focus. 4️⃣ Stop Comparing Seasons—They’re Not Supposed to Look the Same Understanding the importance of honoring your current season, whether you’re planting, growing, or harvesting. Why rushing the process always leads to frustration and burnout. 5️⃣ Ask Yourself: Is This Even What I Want? How comparison tricks you into chasing dreams that aren’t yours. The importance of defining success on your terms, not society’s. Memorable Quotes from the Episode: "Your path is harder because your purpose is greater. Keep running your race." "Jealousy isn’t about them—it’s about the parts of yourself you’re neglecting." "Don’t rush your season. What’s meant to bloom will, in its time." "Stop chasing someone else’s dreams. Define your success, and stay true to it." Actionable Takeaways: Write down three accomplishments you’re proud of, no matter how small. Use them as proof of your resilience. Audit your social media feed—unfollow any account that triggers comparison and replace it with one that inspires you. Reflect on your current season: Are you planting, growing, or harvesting? Honor where you are and set realistic goals for what’s next. Define what success looks like for you—not what looks good to others, but what feels right for your life. Call to Action: If this episode hit home for you, share it with someone who needs to hear these truths. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for more real and raw conversations about growth, mindset, and living in your purpose. Connect with Me: Instagram: @trentshelton Website: TRENTSHELTON.COM Final Thought: "Comparison isn’t about what others have—it’s about what you believe you’re missing. But you’re not behind, and you’re not failing. You’re exactly where you need to be, building the foundation for your breakthrough. Trust your path—your time is coming."

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0:00.0

Hey friend, do you feel like you need a break? You need to disconnect and ease the load on your life.

0:06.4

I do this by establishing non-negotiable times to be fully present with my family. That's why we're

0:12.7

going on a holiday this summer and we're doing something new. We're going to Airbnb our place while

0:18.1

we're away. I have a couple of friends who host on Airbnb, but because I'm always

0:22.3

so busy, I thought I didn't have the time to be a host myself. But you know what? I realized I already

0:28.0

have an Airbnb, my home. If you're going on a trip soon, you've got to try hosting your home

0:33.2

on Airbnb. Think about what you can do with the additional income. For us, the extra money from

0:38.3

hosting on Airbnb means we can add some nice extras to our trip. Your home might be worth more

0:44.8

than you think. Found out of how much at Airbnb.com slash hosts. That's Airbnb.com slash hosts. Let's get it.

0:56.0

Never let people place their impossibilities on your life.

0:59.9

What they couldn't do has nothing to do with what you can do.

1:04.2

What they couldn't be has nothing to do what you can become.

1:08.6

Go get your greatness to the world. Go live legendary. you can become.

1:12.5

Go get your greatness to the world.

1:14.6

Go live legendary.

1:16.3

It's not an option.

1:17.9

It's necessary.

1:19.5

Let's get it.

1:24.1

What up y'all?

1:25.7

Thank you for joining me tonight.

1:27.8

I appreciate you for rocking with me. Super grateful for you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you for joining me tonight. I appreciate you for rocking with me.

1:33.2

Super grateful for you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you so much. It means the world to me.

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