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The School of Greatness

932 Dr. Nicole LePera on Relationships, Boundaries, and Childhood Trauma

The School of Greatness

Lewis Howes

Fitness, Money, Success, Mindset, Health & Fitness, Self Care, Celebrity, Celebrity Interview, Entrepreneurship, Mental Health, Business, Self-improvement, Relationships, Health, Greatness, Education, Inspiration

4.8 • 22K Ratings

🗓️ 25 March 2020

⏱️ 83 minutes

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Summary

“Consciousness is where we are granted choice.” QUESTIONS How are you growing faster than other therapist brands? (1:28) How do we change a feeling of powerlessness? (7:25) What’s the greatest trauma people face? (17:24) What’s the level a child or the parent traumatizes the other? (19:23) How do we come to a place of worthiness? (29:00) What is the best practice on observing self thoughts? (37:13) What’s your biggest trigger? (39:13) How do we forgive our parents, even if they were doing the best they can? (43:20) How do we say no without apologizing? (49:30) How do you speak to a child that has a chaotic reality and has not observed their own thoughts? (1:01:30) What’s your biggest fear as a therapist? (1:07:32) YOU WILL LEARN The issue with always thinking about what to do next (5:30) How to develop a consistency in practice in consciousness of action (9:45) The top tools for your healing journey (16:25) Why meditation is key to tuning in to our internal world (24:30) What to do when we get stuck in our familiarized comfort zone (27:50) How the practice of self observation removes focus without judgment (29:30) Why we must change our expectations (41:21) Why we find a way to keep connections with other humans (51:32) Great ways to say no without apologizing or explaining yourself (56:25) The importance of going inward and connecting with ourselves everyday (1:07:10) LINKS MENTIONED The Body Keeps the Score Virtual Self Healer Circle Membership Brain on Fire by Susannah Cahalan If you enjoyed this episode, show notes and more at http://www.lewishowes.com/932 and follow at instagram.com/lewishowes

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0:00.0

This is episode number 932 with Dr. Nicole LaPara.

0:05.0

Welcome to the School of Greatness.

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My name is Louis Howe's former pro athlete

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turned lifestyle entrepreneur.

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In each week we bring you an inspiring

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person or message to help you discover

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how to unlock your inner greatness.

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Thanks for spending some time with me today.

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Now let the class begin.

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Brunei Brown said,

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daring to set boundaries is about having

0:37.0

the courage to love ourselves even when we risk

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disappointing others.

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And Oscar Wilde said,

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to love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.

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I am so excited that you're here because

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I have become obsessed with the content

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of Dr. Nicole LaPara since I discovered her

0:58.0

about a year ago, I guess it was.

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And we had her on about six months ago.

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And this episode blew up.

1:04.0

I mean, it just helped so many people create

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