92-Create Your Life Focus Together with Kimberly Holmes
Delight Your Marriage
Belah Rose
4.7 • 589 Ratings
🗓️ 12 April 2016
⏱️ 50 minutes
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Summary
PII: When we don’t have a shared vision, everything feels important. It feels vital to win the argument, to get our point across, and to nitpick at the problems in our spouse. But, once we are intentional about envisioning a shared legacy we want to leave, everything comes into proper focus. Kimberly shares how creating goals as a couple has revolutionized the way she and her husband interact with each other. It was one of the biggest turning points in my marriage and continues to ground us as a couple. This episode is not to be missed!
All the links, resources, and show notes available at: delightyourmarriage.com/92
Check out Part I: Dealing With Anger at delightyourmarriage.com/91
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast, the show where you hear from amazing and |
| 0:07.5 | inspiring wives sharing their struggles, triumphs, and advice for this journey called marriage. |
| 0:13.8 | Here's your host, Bella Rose. |
| 0:19.0 | Today we are talking about something very near and dear to my heart. Now, if you are anything |
| 0:24.2 | like me, once you have a goal, you have a course, you have a way to move forward. Now, I will have |
| 0:33.4 | either a very productive weekend or a completely relaxed, enjoying, restful weekend. But if I don't |
| 0:40.2 | set the intention of one or the other, I'll have somewhere in between where I feel kind of |
| 0:45.5 | uncomfortable, not really getting things done, not really relaxing, just feeling kind of blah. |
| 0:51.3 | So for me, what's so helpful in my life is to create an intention, create a goal, |
| 0:56.8 | something that I want to move towards. And what I've found in my marriage is that it's hugely |
| 1:02.5 | helpful for my husband and I to create life-focused goals, to help us come together to achieve something that matters. Not only to me, |
| 1:14.9 | not only to my husband, but most importantly to God. What does he want our lives to amount to? |
| 1:21.1 | How does the most important relationship, human relationship in our lives support us and |
| 1:26.9 | achieving what God wants to do in our lives. |
| 1:29.6 | That is what we're talking about today. I've got Kimberly Holmes talking. This is the second half of |
| 1:34.5 | her interview. I'd love for you to go back to the first half talking about anger in marriage. |
| 1:39.3 | But here's the second half. And I think it's just a wonderful conversation about how you and your husband can |
| 1:45.9 | get on the same page and why that matters. And would you go ahead and share what your marriage looks like now after kind of this season of dealing with anger that we've talked about and kind of dug into? |
| 2:12.4 | What does it look like now? |
| 2:14.2 | It's so different. |
| 2:15.8 | It's amazing. It's everything. i won't say that i'll say everything i hoped it |
| 2:23.8 | would be there's still a lot we're working on hey everyone is right exactly it's definitely |
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