I went back to my fraternity house, I'm a member of Cap-Offa-Side fraternity, and I kind of did an informal survey of some of my fraternity.

I would ask them, I say, fellas, when you meet a woman that you know you pretty much

just want casual sex with, you have no real desire

to be in a long-term relationship with these women.

Are you straightforward about that with them?

Or do you make attempts to mislead them and manipulate them?

And they all were like, come on, Alan.

You can't just go up to a woman be like, hey, Tanya, I have no interest

of being your boyfriend. I just want to fuck you for the next two weeks. You down?

They were like, no, you're gonna get

slap, you're gonna get cursed out, you gonna have drinks

through it, you can't do that.

And I was like, why can't you?

They treated me like I was just goofy.

They were like, Alan, what have you been drinking, dude? You cannot, I swear to the guy, you cannot go up to a woman

and straight forwardly let her know in the very first conversation that all you

want from her is just say a few

episodes of casual sex. I kept saying I begged the difference. So they said

okay next party we have, show me.

Let's see this, the straightforward style you got,

that you claim will work and be effective.

We want to see this,

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