917: My Wedding Gay

Lez Hang Out | A Lesbian Podcast

Lez Hang Out

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4.7 • 545 Ratings

🗓️ 15 April 2026

⏱️ 68 minutes

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Join our Patreon for less than an iced coffee and unlock our growing library of full-length bonus episodes, ad-free weekly episodes, mp3 downloads of our original songs, exclusive Discord access to hang out with us, and more! Welcome back to Lez Hang Out, the podcast that is hearing wedding bells. This week, co-hosts Leigh (@lshfoster) and Ellie (@elliebrigida) hang out and talk about the many differences they’ve observed between gay and straight weddings. Getting married and getting “gay married” may look the same on paper, but the actual weddings themselves tend to be significantly different. As most of you know by now, Ellie is getting married soon, but what you don’t know is that her brother is also getting married this year. This would be a nightmare with two straight weddings, because they can be so much more involved and require a huge time commitment. Straight weddings are by nature steeped in heteronormative culture and bogged down by the traditions of patriarchy. It feels like there is a standard formula that most heterosexual weddings follow (except of course for our allies, the straight nerds). But for our gay weddings, the limit does not exist! There is no one-size-fits-all way to have a queer wedding. Does the concept of a Daddy/Daughter dance make your stomach turn? Would you rather pass away than let your father walk you down the aisle? Don’t want to ever hear another super outdated ball-and-chain speech again? You’re in luck! We don’t have to do any of that nonsense. You were already breaking the mold by simply being your beautiful queer self, you might as well throw the mold all the way out for your ‘wedding gay’. Don’t forget to show your support for our tiny (and mighty!) podcasting team by shopping small at bit.ly/lezmerch & picking up Lez-ssentials songs on Bandcamp. Give us your own answers to our Q & Gay on Instagram and follow along on Facebook, TikTok, YouTube and BlueSky @lezhangoutpod. Email us @lezhangoutpod@gmail.com. Connect with us individually: Ellie Brigida (@elliebrigida). Leigh Holmes Foster (@lshfoster). Leave a review wherever you are listening to this episode to help others find the pod! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Les Hang Out
0:02.3	And let's talk about what Lesing's about
0:05.8	And let's listen to two has me and shout
0:09.3	Let's Hang Out
0:13.0	Hey everyone
0:15.0	Welcome back to Les Hang Out
0:17.3	The podcast
0:18.5	That's going to the chapel and we're gonna get married that's good have we
0:28.5	never done that one before you know i wasn't sure and i feel like we have done bruno mars already
0:33.2	yeah yeah i know sometime i really should because i i do as we discuss in the Discord frequently, every time someone is like, wow, this thing in this episode. And I was like, I think I fever dream this show at this point. I don't. Couldn't tell you. Were we there for that? Debatable. Yes. Yeah. So I don't know. I don't know. But I felt like we had done Bruno Mars. so I tried to pick something. Yes. Switch it up. And I think like when we did Bride Wars, you did, here comes the bride. Which like just happened. So that's true. That's true. Yes. Well, from the West Coast, I'm Lee Holmes Foster. From the East Coast, to those you've been with us in this whole journey, thank you as always for listening. If you're a new listener,
1:10.7	welcome, we're excited to have you here.
1:12.5	Here's what's happening this week.
1:14.6	This week. This week in the Lesdom is a place where we can touch base each episode about things going on with the podcast or otherwise. In season nine, we're continuing to release our Patreon bonus episodes. You can listen to those at bit. bit.ly slash Les Patreon. In the greater Les universe, we are continuing to release our Patreon bonus episodes. You can listen to those at bit. dot Lee slash Les Patreon.
1:29.3	In the greater Les Universe, we are going to talk a little bit about Pink Pony Club
1:33.6	in this upcoming episode, but let me tell you one group of straights who is allowed to rock
1:39.8	out to Pink Pony Club, and that is the crew of Artemis II on their way around the moon,
1:47.0	being serenaded awake by the sultry sounds of Chaplain.
1:52.4	Why not?
1:53.3	Thanks to NASA.
1:54.9	Incredible.
1:55.9	Also, Sherry Cola is playing a, plays one of the characters in the new movie Goat.
2:02.8	Lee, I have actually seen this film, so me and Bailey pretty much primarily probably watch things that your children will watch.
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