915: Age-ay Ap-Gay

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Lez Hang Out

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4.7 • 545 Ratings

🗓️ 17 March 2026

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Join our Patreon for less than a cup of your favorite coffee and unlock 25+ full-length bonus episodes, ad-free weekly episodes, mp3 downloads of our original songs, exclusive Discord access, and more! Welcome back to Lez Hang Out, the podcast that wants a hot, older lesbian to step on them. This week, co-hosts Leigh (@lshfoster) and Ellie (@elliebrigida) hang out and discuss their feelings on age gap relationships. When we think about an age gap relationship, it isn’t so much about the specific number of years that separate the couple. While there are of course certain gaps and scenarios that give us the ick right off the bat, ultimately we define an age gap relationship more by differences in life stage than by years apart. A 20 year old college student is most likely in a very different life stage than a 35 year old whereas that same 15 year gap might feel like nothing to a couple who get together at 40 and 55. We can’t talk about age gaps without talking about the power dynamics and patriarchal ideals they are often rooted in. So many celebrities are in significant age gap relationships and the media has normalized older men being attracted to younger barely-not-children women since the dawn of the patriarchy. But it isn’t only men who are into the gap. When we take a step back and really look at lesbian media, there is a major romanticization of the older, dominant lesbian and the younger, typically less experienced woman who is obsessed with her. From The Devil Wears Prada to Carol to Hacks, lesbians on a whole have a “mommy” problem. If you’re creeped out by a 40 year old man pursuing a 22 year old college girl, you should be just as creeped out by Carol pursuing Therese. Don’t forget to show your support for our tiny team by shopping small at bit.ly/lezmerch & picking up Lez-ssentials songs on Bandcamp. Give us your own answers to our Q & Gay on Instagram and follow along on Facebook, TikTok, YouTube and BlueSky @lezhangoutpod. Email us @lezhangoutpod@gmail.com. Connect with us individually: Ellie Brigida (@elliebrigida). Leigh Holmes Foster (@lshfoster). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Les hang out.
0:02.5	Let's hang out.
0:03.3	And let's talk about what Lesing's about.
0:05.9	Let's hang out.
0:06.8	And let's listen to two hesby and shout.
0:10.7	Let's hang out.
0:13.9	Hey, everyone.
0:15.1	Welcome back to Les Hang out, the podcast where Stacey's mom has got it going on. That's good. I was going to say, here's the you, Mrs. Robinson. I mean, yeah, also good. All of it. All of us. All of us. From the West Coast, I'm Lee Holmes Foster. From the East Coast, I'm Ellie Bridgeta. To those you've been with us to this whole journey, thank you as always for listening. If you're a new listener, welcome. We're excited to have you here. Here's what's happening this week. This week in the Lesdom is a place where we can touch base each episode about things going on with the podcast or otherwise. We are continuing to release our Patreon bonus episodes in season nine. Our last episode was all about queer friend dynamics. You can listen to that at bit.ly slash les patreon.
1:01.3	In the greater Les universe, there, can you believe, Ellie, the 20th anniversary, Hannah Montana special episode is going to be dropping in, what, like two weeks on Disney Plus?
1:16.6	Really, really old. I think it's on the 24th. I'm having it on my calendar. I'm going to a watch party. It's going to be a whole thing. Is Bailey losing her mind? Yes. I think maybe we'll need some new wigs. Like, there's a lot of stuff. There's a lot of preparation to be done in our home. Cannot wait. But I also feel like it is queer news. It is. Because Miley, queer icon, we grew up with her and discovering her sexuality. And now 20 years later, she's bringing it back to Hannah Montana.
1:44.5	As we know, should have been gay we did on Hannah Montana.
1:46.9	Like, there's a lot.
1:48.2	There's a lot to unpack here.
1:49.6	Incredible.
1:50.2	Incredible.
1:50.8	Gays, mark your calendars.
1:52.0	We're already.
1:53.0	Megan the Stallion is going to be playing a gender swap ziddler in Mulan Rouge on Broadway,
1:57.3	which she's actually the first woman to play the role worldwide. Did you know that? Wow. I know. And I feel like... An honor. Zidler is like a campy queer character anyways. I would pay a million dollars to see Megan the Stallion in Moulin Rouge. I think it's going to be too much for us to go see. But if anyone sees this version of Moulin Rouge,
2:19.5	please let us know. I bet it's going to be number one, super gay, and amazing.
2:23.6	Also in the greater Les Universe, although maybe it's the greater not-so-les universe,
2:27.7	is so Bridgeton, season four has wrapped up. And after sort of teasing the Michael Michaela gender swap, possible
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