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The Jordan Harbinger Show

913: Trust Betrayed by Wife Who Strayed (2,300 Times) | Feedback Friday

The Jordan Harbinger Show

Jordan Harbinger

Education, Business, Science

4.812.4K Ratings

🗓️ 20 October 2023

⏱️ 69 minutes

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Summary

2,300 messages discovered on your wife's old phone reveal her prolific infidelity that spanned years of your 24-year marriage. Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
  • 2,300 messages discovered on your wife's old phone reveal a pattern of prolific infidelity that spanned approximately 16 percent of your 24-year marriage. Does she deserve the second chance she's begging for?
  • As the least successful of two sisters, you know your mother already worries chronically about you. And since your brother-in-law died by suicide last year, you're hesitant to share that you also suffer from depression — but you don't want to keep her in the dark, either. What's the right way to handle this dilemma?
  • Described as "irreplaceable" by your employers, your workload equals or surpasses that of longer-tenured coworkers who make twice as much as you. How can you renegotiate your salary without coming off as entitled and greedy? [Thanks to The Connector’s Advantage author Michelle Tillis Lederman for her help with this one!]
  • Your dad lives remotely with a partner who's generally abusive toward him, with health problems that make it difficult for her to be left alone for long periods of time. This means she either comes with him when he visits (complaining the whole time and making everyone miserable), or she stays home and texts or calls incessantly to berate him the whole time. How can you help him work up the nerve to end this obviously unhappy relationship?
  • How do you get over the anger and confusion brought on by the ex who ghosted you with zero explanation after a year-long relationship — especially when his thirst-trap photos keep showing up in your dating app?
  • Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
  • Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
  • Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at @GabeMizrahi and Instagram @gabrielmizrahi.

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0:00.0

Welcome to Feedback Friday, I'm your host, Jordan Harbinger.

0:06.8

As always, I'm here with Feedback Friday producer, the Life Preserver, helping us survive

0:10.9

these choppy waters of existential drama, Gabriel Mizrahi.

0:15.0

On the Jordan Harbinger show, we decode the stories, secrets and skills of the world's

0:18.3

most fascinating people and turn their wisdom into practical advice that you can use to

0:22.4

impact your own life.

0:24.0

And those around you, our mission is to help you become a better informed, more critical

0:27.5

thinker.

0:28.5

We have long-form conversations with a variety of amazing folks from neuroscientists and

0:33.3

war correspondents to hostage negotiators and cold case homicide investigators.

0:38.2

This week we had my friend at Stair Perel.

0:39.9

If you're not up on a Stair Perel, she is an absolutely brilliant relationship therapist.

0:45.0

We talk about conflict and cheating among other topics in relationships, even if you're

0:48.9

not in a relationship, I think this will fascinate you and if you are, man, are you going

0:52.7

to look at your relationship in a new way or the relationships of people you know?

0:56.1

I just feel like a little bit of her rubs off on me every time I talk to her and we go

0:59.5

way way back and I'm so excited that she came on this week.

1:01.8

We also had my other new buddy, former MI6 operative, Matthew Dunn.

1:06.1

You might have heard of him because he writes Tom Clancy Esk, espionage novels that I think

1:10.0

are especially popular over in the UK.

1:12.0

We talk about Iranian hit squads in the UK and London and New York and the United States

1:17.0

and elsewhere across the globe were essentially regime hitmen and intelligence agents are

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