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Shameless Leadership

913: INCLUSIVE LEADERSHIP: How Male Allies Can Show Up for Women

Shameless Leadership

Sara Dean

Education, Management, How To, Business, Self-improvement

4.7800 Ratings

🗓️ 12 November 2024

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

When I facilitate conversations about inclusion and allyship with groups of women, someone inevitably says, “Men need to hear this too!” When I lead mixed-gender rooms of people through similar conversations, I am consistently heartened by how open to listening, learning, and practicing the men in the room are. In my experience, many male leaders want to be better allies, advocates, and accomplices. So, today I’m excited to talk about exactly how to make that happen! In this episode, I unpack the concept of allyship and how male allies can support women through active, meaningful engagement. I introduce a spectrum of allyship, from Allies who support but may not yet take significant action, to Accomplices who leverage their privilege to challenge oppressive systems, often at personal risk. Further along, Advocates bring visibility to issues, promoting gender equity by calling attention to injustices. And, Activists, the most visible allies, directly address social and political issues, often leading change movements to deconstruct systems of oppression. By understanding where they fall on this spectrum, men can find ways to support women in ways that go beyond token support. Allyship becomes actionable when male allies engage deeply with feedback, prioritize active listening, and amplify women’s voices in their networks. True allyship requires men to listen to women’s experiences and thoughtfully respond to their input, creating spaces where feedback is valued and action is taken. Allies can further their impact by recognizing their own privilege, acknowledging how it affects their perspectives, and then using it to support and advance women’s visibility and credibility. When men publicly support women’s ideas and contributions, they can combat the common invisibility barriers women face in leadership and contribute to a more inclusive culture. Creating inclusive environments requires men to go beyond merely designating “safe spaces.” Instead, they can work to establish trust, connection, and belonging in spaces that prioritize diverse perspectives. Furthermore, by promoting women’s career advancement through mentorship and sponsorship, allies actively work against the systemic limitations placed on women’s growth. Male allies who mentor women provide critical access to skills, knowledge, and networks, helping to bridge the gap to leadership positions. Ultimately, allyship is a continuous journey of learning and growth. There is no final destination. True allies engage in ongoing education around gender diversity, emotional intelligence, and inclusivity. This commitment to lifelong learning is key for allies who aim to dismantle systems that only provide advantages to select people and desire to create lasting change in their communities and organizations as part of their leadership legacy.  We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on our website: https://shamelessleadership.com/sponsor Interested in becoming a sponsor of the Shameless Mom Academy? Email our sales team at [email protected]. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Welcome to Shameless Leadership. I'm your host, Sarah Dean. This show is for women, transgender people, non-binary folks, as well as allies, who are committed to advancing their leadership while also advancing the leadership of those around them. In each episode, we will offer practical tips, leadership strategies, and inspiring stories to help you become a more

0:38.6

confident, compassionate, and inclusive leader. The truth is, you were born to lead. What might

0:44.5

happen for you if you were to wholeheartedly embrace that part of yourself? So let's start now,

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together. Hello, shameless leaders. Today we're going to talk about how male allies can show up for women

0:56.7

and for all people who are in marginalized communities and underrepresented communities and

1:01.7

underestimated communities in commonly ignored and overlooked communities. So I love talking about this.

1:07.6

And the reason I love talking about this is because I've had the opportunity to be in so many rooms over the last few years where I've gone in making assumptions.

1:16.6

For so long, for the better part of two decades, I worked almost exclusively in rooms full of women.

1:21.6

And so when I started working in more mixed gender rooms, I thought I would have resistance going into spaces and trying to

1:28.5

talk about women's leadership and women finding their voices and women gaining confidence

1:33.1

in spaces where men took up part of the room. And I thought I might get some eye rolls. I thought

1:40.7

there might just be some behavior that was a little defensive or deflective or maybe

1:46.6

even self-protective. And I have to say, I've just so overwhelmingly been excited and made so

1:54.1

much more optimistic in terms of the men who I've worked with in spaces made for women have been

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amazing and open and eager and ready to listen

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and wanting to do more. And it's just been really, really heartwarming and so much different than I

2:09.6

expected. And so I think it's important to acknowledge that. I think it's important when you are

2:15.0

someone who has been around women and been around a lot of women who've been harmed

2:20.1

by males and leadership, it's a little, it can feel a little tenuous sometimes to walk into

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