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Money For Couples

91. “I helped pay off his $30k+ credit card debt and he didn’t even care” (Part 1)

Money For Couples

Ramit Sethi

Relationships, Society & Culture, Investing, Business

4.63.1K Ratings

🗓️ 18 April 2023

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

Nicole and Jorden are in their 30s and have been dating for four years. Nicole recently graduated from college, jumping into an orthodontics career starting at $400,000 a year. Jorden’s failed personal training business, and lack of resolve to improve his situation, have her questioning everything. This episode is brought to you by: Sakara | Right now, Sakara is offering our listeners 20% off their first order. Use code RAMIT during checkout at Sakara.com/ramit for 20% off all nutrition programs and wellness essentials. BetterHelp | Visit betterhelp.com/ramit today to get 10% off your first month. LMNT | Right now, LMNT is offering 8 single serving packets FREE with any LMNT order. This is a great way to try all 8 flavors. Get yours at DrinkLMNT.com/RAMIT. Links mentioned in this episode Join the LIVE watch party of my Netflix Show Netflix show BTS newsletter (limited time only) Get my New York Times best-selling book Get my no-numbers journal Get Money Coaching with Ramit Connect with Ramit Download the Conscious Spending Plan Other episodes Instagram Twitter YouTube If you and your partner have a money issue and you want my help, I occasionally select a couple to work with, free of charge. Apply for my help here. Produced by Crate Media.

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0:00.0

Have you heard people talking about the hedonic treadmill, the idea that once you start spending money on certain things

0:06.8

You're not going to enjoy it anymore and then they usually tell you this so therefore don't get on the hedonic treadmill

0:12.9

Don't spend any money if you get a raise bank at all. I don't love that advice. It's just getting people to play small

0:19.3

I would rather you have a philosophy or a framework on how to know when you are ready to spend more in my life

0:28.2

If you told me remit you can't stay at nice hotels

0:31.8

That would actually be very difficult for me because those things are important to me

0:36.2

For a lot of people if they own a house and you say you can't afford it anymore

0:39.9

You've got a rent or move into an apartment. They would find that incredibly difficult

0:44.4

I don't want you to be afraid of the hedonic treadmill and worry about spending money on anything because you're just gonna

0:49.9

Get used to it. So don't do it at all. No, I want you to have a more nuanced perspective on money

0:55.0

That's why this Saturday on my podcast newsletter. I'm going to share six main areas where once you spend money

1:01.6

It's really difficult to go back and my philosophy is to make sure that you are ready

1:07.5

To move up the value chain before you ever spend money on these things

1:11.9

I set my life up so I would never have to take a step back when it comes to nice hotels

1:16.6

I want you to do the same for the important things in your life get on the newsletter at iwt.com slash podcast newsletter

1:24.2

I'm only sending this particular newsletter out on Saturday, August 12th after that. You will not be able to access it

1:30.4

Iwt.com slash podcast newsletter

1:36.1

Let me read what you wrote in your application to me cool, gosh

1:41.0

Can I read from this you can read from it you wrote

1:45.4

We recently had an argument that escalated our previous conversations from

1:49.8

Quote are we financially ready to be engaged to quote this man needs to pack his backs

1:57.3

How are we going to make big purchases together when his credit score shuts it down?

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