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Shameless Leadership

904: INCLUSIVE LEADERSHIP: How Extroverted Leaders Can Include Introverts

Shameless Leadership

Sara Dean

Education, Management, How To, Business, Self-improvement

4.7800 Ratings

🗓️ 10 September 2024

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

In a culture that values and rewards outward confidence and assertive communication, it’s not surprising that extroverts tend to rise to the top as leaders more predominantly than introverts. Extroverts are commonly outgoing, charismatic, and less socially inhibited than introverts in group settings. While this may sound grand if you were born an extrovert, the downside to extroversion is that extroverts can take up so much space, they don’t leave space for others. As leaders, extroverts can be dismissive of introverts and miss significant opportunities to pass the mic, open the floor to other voices, and allow others to feel seen, heard, and valued. In this episode, I dig into some of the risks associated with extroverted leadership, from overbearing communication to lackluster listening skills to overlooking others to general impatience in team environments.   I promise I’m not here to judge you. If you’re an extroverted leader who might be the loudest one in the room sometimes, know that I stand beside you. Sometimes I am you. Together, we can take our gifts and make them work for ourselves and for others. This will likely take some self-awareness and honing new skills. But, if you want to be an inclusive leader who holds space for everyone in the room, this is your job.   As your self-awareness grows, you will likely realize that you have so many valuable lessons to learn from your introverted counterparts. Introverts often have the sage wisdom that you can’t quite harness in high-stress moments. They are keen observers who see things you and I don’t see. And, their ideas and opinions are often exactly the missing pieces you’ve been looking for - if you just get quiet enough to let them speak.   Extroverted leaders can be more inclusive of introverts by adopting strategies that create space for different work styles, encourage diverse contributions, and foster a more balanced team dynamic. In this episode, I talk through specific strategies to foster safety and trust in order to create spaces where extroverts and introverts can communicate and thrive side by side.  As extroverted leaders, we have a lot to say. But our ideas are not better and are not more important. Let’s make sure we are holding space for all voices so we may all benefit from everyone’s gifts.   Link mentioned:  Join my September Influence & Ignite Retreat for small business owners: shamelessmom.com/retreat We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on our website: https://shamelessleadership.com/sponsor Interested in becoming a sponsor of the Shameless Mom Academy? Email our sales team at [email protected]. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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inclusive leader. The truth is, you were born to lead. What might happen for you if you were to

1:00.8

wholeheartedly embrace that part of yourself? So let's start now together. Hello, shameless leaders.

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We're going to be talking about extroverted leadership today. And this is the thing I know about fairly intimately because I'm an extroverted leader myself. And probably many of you

1:15.9

listening are because many leaders are extroverted and we'll talk about statistics around that in just a

1:20.1

minute. But I want to talk about this today because I feel like my extroversion is that it enhances

1:27.0

my leadership. It makes it easier for me to be

1:29.6

loud and bold and forthcoming and open and take up space in a room. It doesn't mean that it's

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always easy or comfortable, but it just means that I have a personality type where I feel

1:39.5

less inhibited in a lot of group settings than an introvert might. There can be downsides to extraversion

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and there can definitely be downsides to extroverted leadership, meaning that when you are a leader

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who is an extrovert and that you thrive in that group setting and you get your energy off

1:58.8

of people, sometimes that energy that can

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absolutely be a gift and it can absolutely be, you know, you are part of your secret sauce,

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can also be the thing that maybe gets in the way of other people having space in the same

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environment. It might be the thing that has you taking up so much space that it can come to

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